"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Training awareness: good exercise?

Egoist

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I was walking down the street and thinking, ok, so I technically can't approach every girl i see, in every situation..

but maybe, the least I can do is figure out how I would do it if i had to. So now as I'm walking to the bus, to the store, from work, etc.. Whenever i see a cute girl, i ask myself "look at her and tell me how you would open her, what you'd talk about, etc" So basically always looking for appearance/situation/etc -based openers..

what do you guys think, good/bad strategy?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desdinova

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It's a great exercise because you can come up with your own openers instead of canned ones. You'll become more aware of your surroundings and become a better conversationalist.

This is how I look for openers.
 
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