"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Train Ride Home

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I'll be taking a 1hour train ride home with a girl from a New Year's Party.

I know that one has to be engaging and fun to be around with but the thing is, I can't think of much to do for 1 entire hour on a train.

Anyone has tips or experiences to share, thks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Diaoz
I'll be taking a 1hour train ride home with a girl from a New Year's Party.

I know that one has to be engaging and fun to be around with but the thing is, I can't think of much to do for 1 entire hour on a train.

Anyone has tips or experiences to share, thks.
1) Talk to her - 20 minutes

2) Cuddle and/or make out - 20 minutes

3) Do things like talk on the phone, look at the view etc - 10 minutes

4) talk/meet other people - 10 minutes

The above are the minimum that you can do... i personally dont see how u have a problem with just talking to her for a whole hour. I have been on a bus ride for 6 hours with a chick and neither her or me got bored... there was always something to talk about, we could just sit and cuddle for at least an hour or 2 straight, look at the view togeather, play games like "i spy with my little eye", read eachother interesting things from a magazine, etc... there's always something to do.. so dont stress to much, and just go with it;)

Enjoy your new years, and your train ride home.

Laterz...
 

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Thks for a reply, have a great New Year yourself too.

However the thing is this. If this was a train ride with a friend, I'd have a tonne of stuffs to do.
But this girl is someone I barely know, I thought talking to her about her would be good, yet it comes off as a long boring train ride of talking.
 

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Originally posted by Diaoz
Thks for a reply, have a great New Year yourself too.

However the thing is this. If this was a train ride with a friend, I'd have a tonne of stuffs to do.
But this girl is someone I barely know, I thought talking to her about her would be good, yet it comes off as a long boring train ride of talking.
Just getting to know eachother should be entertaining enough, along with some flirting;)
 

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who knows

there was a time i used to decide what my experience was going to be like,
before it had even happend, and like alot of other times
the unexpected was always near..
what would happen if something incredible happened, somthing so rare and exciting that you would remember this train journey for the rest of your life...

it doesnt matter what you think will happen, i dont believe any body can see the future, so think about what you would like to happen instead...catch
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ever had sex on a train?
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Ever had sex on a train?
haha... i highly dought that this woman that hardly knows this guy would sleep with him within a matter of an hour on a train... but it WOULD be fun if it WERE true;) Maybe i'll add that to my list of " My Personall Chalenges":p

Laterz...
 
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