"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tough Situation

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I met a girl on Friday at a club during a cigarette break. I had no energy by the time I got to talking to her, but I still got her contact info. Wrote her today, Wednesday suggesting we meet for a drink and she invited me to a happy hour tomorrow Thursday with some of her friends.

This is like walking into the lion's den for me. I have to show up alone, none of my friends are available. I face the prospect of not only entertaining her and her girlfriends but also dealing with any jealous coworker. I already hinted that I have a business thing tomorrow and that I'd try to make it but I don't really want to cancel on her either...

Advice? How should I approach? Where to sit? Fark, I can't even remember her face that much! hahahah
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Post this on "Discussion". "Tips" is for giving advice, not soliciting it.

Personally, I don't like going to "ladies' night out". I feel too much like I'm being displayed like a trophy, like I'm an "option" in case she gets bored or horny.
 
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