"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tough Situation

mikeraw

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I met a girl on Friday at a club during a cigarette break. I had no energy by the time I got to talking to her, but I still got her contact info. Wrote her today, Wednesday suggesting we meet for a drink and she invited me to a happy hour tomorrow Thursday with some of her friends.

This is like walking into the lion's den for me. I have to show up alone, none of my friends are available. I face the prospect of not only entertaining her and her girlfriends but also dealing with any jealous coworker. I already hinted that I have a business thing tomorrow and that I'd try to make it but I don't really want to cancel on her either...

Advice? How should I approach? Where to sit? Fark, I can't even remember her face that much! hahahah
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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squirrels

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Post this on "Discussion". "Tips" is for giving advice, not soliciting it.

Personally, I don't like going to "ladies' night out". I feel too much like I'm being displayed like a trophy, like I'm an "option" in case she gets bored or horny.
 
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