"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys, well since the last time I talked I have hooked up with many chicks thanks to this forum and stepping my game up. Well now time for my toughest situation. Here we go: Well my good friend, Matt, has a sister and she was always pretty, but I really never thought much about it since I hardly saw her. Well, over the years she became incredibly hot, I am talking like a 9.9 ( I don't think anyone is perfect lol). No bull****, his sister could easily be a model and every guy I know thinks she is just as hot as I do. Throughout my senior year I barely saw her in school, but when I did she would give me the eyes and a great smile. I talked to her while hanging out with her older brothers and we had great conversation. She seems like she is interested, and hell I am too! But here is where it gets complicated. The problem is her two older brothers, both of which I am good friends with. Im not going to lie they are big guys and always talk about kicking anyones ass who messes with their sister. To make things worse, I am rooming with her one brother next year in college. But this could also be my advantage, if she were to come and visit, and also when he has parties she is usually there! I just don't know how to tell one of my best friends that I like his sister, especially since he and his older bro are so over protective. Someone give me some ideas, cause I can't pass this one up LOL Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ben15 said:
Hey guys, well since the last time I talked I have hooked up with many chicks thanks to this forum and stepping my game up. Well now time for my toughest situation. Here we go: Well my good friend, Matt, has a sister and she was always pretty, but I really never thought much about it since I hardly saw her. Well, over the years she became incredibly hot, I am talking like a 9.9 ( I don't think anyone is perfect lol). No bull****, his sister could easily be a model and every guy I know thinks she is just as hot as I do. Throughout my senior year I barely saw her in school, but when I did she would give me the eyes and a great smile. I talked to her while hanging out with her older brothers and we had great conversation. She seems like she is interested, and hell I am too! But here is where it gets complicated. The problem is her two older brothers, both of which I am good friends with. Im not going to lie they are big guys and always talk about kicking anyones ass who messes with their sister. To make things worse, I am rooming with her one brother next year in college. But this could also be my advantage, if she were to come and visit, and also when he has parties she is usually there! I just don't know how to tell one of my best friends that I like his sister, especially since he and his older bro are so over protective. Someone give me some ideas, cause I can't pass this one up LOL Thanks
Don't f'uck around with your best friend's sister, unless you want a serious relationship from it.
 

PRiSM92289

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^ thanks bro, I just rented the movie cause I have never seen it and you ruin a major plot scene (I would think)
 

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yeah dawg don't do it. unwritten rule right there, u dont fVck w/ ur best friends sister.
 

Ben15

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Yah I know, but its easier said than done. But Bros before Hoes I guess! LOL Thanks guys, I will find myself another lady.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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