"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tough position... want opinions

DJ Axton

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So this is the situation. I think I know what you're gonna say, but this is the situation I'm in.

There's a girl in my class. Probably about an hb8.5. Total hottie, totally fancied me for AGES. She's been in Jamaica for a couple of weeks and even though I've known her since like forth grade we haven't talked in about a year.
But, before that year started, things were pretty hot. She'd come into school about half an hour early and we'd always be totally alone for about 25 minutes. As you can imagine things got pretty intimate (about as intimate as you would get when you're 14 years old and in your class room that in less than ten minutes would be swarming with school children). But she only came in early cause her mum had this temporary job and she stopped coming in early about a year ago. Hadn't spoken to her since until about a couple of weeks ago.
She's in Jamaica; about nine o'clock pm there and 1am here; and i out of nowhere start up an msn convo. She starts talkin and next thing I know, we're talking about the size of her tits. I've talked to her about three times since then and every time our convos hav been filled with sexual talk.
So she just got back from Jamaica and so, if I wanted to, I could ask her out, and she'll almost certainly say yes. Cause this girl is a total hottie, and if I take her out we both know exactly where it will lead. And that's never been a bad thing in my book.
The only problem is that she's a total slut. And I say that with all due respect. She's slept with about half a dozen guys in the last year (bare in mind she is 15 so that is a fair amount). All her "friends" hate her, some of which are my friends, so there's no way this can turn into any long term thing.

So basically, I need a opinions here. If you were in my position, would you do it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ryannath

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Sure, why not? Who cares what other ppl think? It would be good experience.
 

duckbutt

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yeah definetly! but just make sure to wear a condom since shes been around the block
 

realsmoothie

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Jesus, she slept with six guys in a year and she's 15?

I'm not going to call her a slut or anything but that's a lot for that age.
 

PuroDeAgave

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I dont think shes looking for anything longterm , I think she just wants to lay you. So go for it .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Shocker

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Three phrases:

double wrap it, video tape, put it in the azz
 

kgarvey

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PuroDeAgave said:
I dont think shes looking for anything longterm , I think she just wants to lay you. So go for it .
yes,exactly what I was thinking.
 

MissionX

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GO for it, you never know what will happen, if she likes you for you, then it will last longer,

Been around the block at 15 :| that's young, well I shouldn't talk haha I've been errr how can I say this.... I been around the block, X 150 times :| Haha

Kind of embarrasing that I am a man*****.... thats a nickname but w/e.

Go for it man. You've got nothing to lose, make sure you double wrap, and stick it in the azz just for me lol
 

DJ Axton

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Yer people are a lot more sexually aware nowadays. I hav people approachin me all the time askin 4 sex pointers. im like wtf how do u no so much about my sex life. I'm like the youngest in my class, too.

Well thanks 4 the advice. she wants a lay, ill giv her a lay. the only problem was that all my friends hate her but no1 has 2 no, rite?
 

kgarvey

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who gives a damn if they do eh?;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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underdog

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dude, most likely she will give you some, but just think about how many other guys she has screwed. this is up to you. But I would move on I wouldnt want to be with her then.
 

wayword

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Lol, so how many STD-infested rent-a-dreads did she fvck in her Jamaican sex tour?

Not to mention all the locals at your school?

6 guys/yr at 15? Let's call a duck a duck here...

If you do her, just pray she don't have herpes or HPV! :woo:
 

noodle

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reading this thread has made me wonder...would you take the risk of getting Aids/HIV and dieing young, for getting the chance to ride the village bicycle?
 

PleasureKing

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noodle said:
reading this thread has made me wonder...would you take the risk of getting Aids/HIV and dieing young, for getting the chance to ride the village bicycle?
shes 15, its more of a tricycle okay. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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