Tough Mission..Need advice

[HustlerDigital]

Alright fellas...fellow DJ's....hope your all having a good one today. Need some advice for this mission Im up against. Basically to hit the ex-gf once more..... ;-)

Alright...ex gf of 4 yrs...17-21 y/o and have been broken up for a year. The BEST sex we both ever have had..and we both admit that to each other. Despite being broken up for the last year and some months we KIT and meet up every once in awhile for fun. However I went and f'ed it up a little and got some feelings for some chick and basically dicthed my ex..BIG MISTAKE....because now the ex basically told me how much I hurt her..yada yada yada...and went and got a bf. Shes a good girl with morals (doesnt cheat)... but the thing about it is that were both known for long term relationships...SUX!.. What I basically wanna do is act like I dont care about her and her man...have sex on the side...to leave the door open for a future relationship...as eventually I will want to settle down..just having too much fun right now to do that.

What things..steps should I do to get her to come see me one day...Go out..etc. I basically only see her when I would go out to a club or something as we have some mutual friends and shes a regular there. In the past I just plain out ignored her to get other girls..but now I have something to shoot for....hahaha. How should I handle this? Get a little drunk..and act like Im drunker then I am to protect myself from anything I said the night before? Be lovey dovey BF type? Or should I straight DJ it out? Im not quite sure how to work it since I have a past w this girl..and now there a BF involved...HMMM..thats why Im posting.

Anyways...anything will help..Much appreciated..and I will keep you guys updated as Im sure some of you reading this are in teh same boat. Thanks fellas

 

[Royal Elite]

So basically you want to turn her into a hor by having sex with her on the side since she has a bf, and then keep her after she has became a hor on the side until you are then ready to settle down with said hor for a nice monogomous relatioship.

Pimpen you tripping, get it together.

"You cant turn a hor into a house wife"-true story

 

[HustlerDigital]

lol..NO ...i just want to have one last "time".... not turn her into a *****...i mean i was with her for 4 yrs....hold up..isnt this a djing board? or a moral board? im confused....

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by HustlerDigital
lol..NO ...i just want to have one last "time".... not turn her into a *****...i mean i was with her for 4 yrs....hold up..isnt this a djing board? or a moral board? im confused....

This has nothing to do with just being a moral board or dj board. This is about you trying to "wife a hoe" because if you get together while she has a bf that is what she is. It doesnt matter how long you WERE together BEFORE.

And not only did you see hit it again you said keep her on the side until you are ready to settle down. So this is about self esteem, why would you want to settle down with a hoe (that is what she will be if you hit it and she still has a bf).

 

[HustlerDigital]

to tell you the truth..all i really want is to be go out with her..chill with her..not just f her...i only said that (and this is honest) to get adviec from ppl who do it like that.

being completly honest..i want advice on her keeping me in mind...and too feel comfy with coming with me to **** if she needs to...or eventually down the road hooking back up..if possible

shes a good girl..only had sex w 3 ppl...22...and doesnt cheat..etc..

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by HustlerDigital
to tell you the truth..all i really want is to be go out with her..chill with her..not just f her...i only said that (and this is honest) to get adviec from ppl who do it like that.

being completly honest..i want advice on her keeping me in mind...and too feel comfy with coming with me to **** if she needs to...or eventually down the road hooking back up..if possible

shes a good girl..only had sex w 3 ppl...22...and doesnt cheat..etc..

Then you need to get on with your life. This is that saying where if it's meant she'll come back to you. Call every now and then to say what's up, see what's good with her situation, but in the mean time grab some other chicks.

Having a Life is the easiest way to draw back others if they really like you again. And the plus is after you start enjoying your life, you will probably be so happy dont you wont even fixate on this girl anymore you dig me.

 

[HustlerDigital]

your prob right man...i guess the hardest thing for anyone to do...

 

[christz]

Originally posted by HustlerDigital
your prob right man...i guess the hardest thing for anyone to do...

saying goodbye is always the hardest

 

[n00bPimp]

I can relate to this story. I went out w my exgf for 2 yrs, she was a good girl, wantin to get freaky all the time, always up for sex, all the good stuff. we broke up and after almost 1 year we were still friends on and off and we would see each other from time to time. Like you, I was trying to get her back, but more for the sex than anything else. I thought it would be nice to hit it again.
But of course she found a bf, they've been together for more than 6 months now, and all this time i been tryin different techniques on her to get her attracted. I can say the techniques got me much farther than not knowing them, however we never got past kissing twice and even that felt a lil forced on her side. So yeah now I just got tired of trying being that she's a faithfull girl who would never cheat on her bf and she loves him, they have a nice relationship w/e. I deicded to say next now because I found out they're having sex and all that stuff so i began to get jealous when she went out with him and all that good stuff. Of course i played it off until one day I decided to be an AFC about the whole thing. that night i decided to end everything with her and deleted her # and rejected her calls. She wrote me an email asking me about why, i said its for the bst, tryed to keep it simple. this was a week ago. Now the relationship is over, i decided an ex should stay an ex. my advice is dont waste ur time, ur gonna realize its all just a big waste of emotions.