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[Vanilla]

Basically I don't know what I'm going to do. (Rather long sorry, mostly ranting)

Here's my daily dose during the week:
I have college from 8am-2pm, no time inbetween for lunch, so I have to eat from 2-3pm, then head back to my parents place to babysit my 9yr old bro so they can go to work (I tried to get out of it many many times) and from then on, I'm stuck at home till they get back home late. The price on the mortgage is makin them work overtime

.. so I usually try to find HB's during that one hour lunch at this community college. I looked in the cafeteria, all I see is AFCs playin video games, guys chillin and lots of old people. Old people every-****ing-where! Some chicks are ugly, the rest have their cellphones glued to their ears, I swear I went to see if any were readin on the benches, I found none. And believe me I looked, the place was deserted.. at 2 pm?

I then went downtown, had passing convos about how nice the day is since it was actually shining bright today, and now I'm left with typing this out and probably calling an old highschool HB that I messed around with before to hook up and de-virginize me. (I got a busy signal, will call back later tonight)

I know it sounds like I'm making excuses but I've tried.. I was able to test kino with one girl I wanted to bang and she seems rather nervous and shy, not reacting to my jokes as much (due to her being Romanian, not her style of jokes) And while I'm talking to her I found out that she's married and going back to her country, so I decided to keep her as a friend to stay out of trouble.

I feel confident about myself, I hold up convorsations well, I've read alot on here, I dress nicer, I exercise as much as I can, my room is spankin clean with vanilla candles everywhere

Basically time passes so damn quick each day. Obviously I can't stop time, but I gotta do something.

Any suggestions?

 

[MickoZ]

Find a 2 hours daily job, that will pay you enough to pay a babysitter for 5 hours.

Then you will work 2 hours and have 5 hours of freetime to go hunt.

I am a genious. Thanks.

 

[Vanilla]

Well genious,

I have college from 8am-2pm, no time inbetween for lunch, so I have to eat from 2-3pm, then head back to my parents place to babysit my 9yr old bro

It's not for pay, my parents need me to babysit while they work.

 

[E-Z Rider]

Originally posted by Vanilla
Well genious,



It's not for pay, my parents need me to babysit while they work.

Well he's just saying you can pay somebody else to do it for you.

What about weekends? Hit up the malls if you have to. There are HB's everywhere if you look hard enough.

And if all else fails- you might get some options from an internet dating service. I know there's a stigma attached to it, like only 40-something divorced people use them, but you might be able to find some chicks on it. Use whatever resources you have available to you.

-E-Z

 

[MickoZ]

I was just suggesting to make the babysit by someone else, but that could not be an option for you. Else pay yourself a babisitter and DJ her after so you get some kind of 3-in-1 for your effort. =P

But on a more serious note, is that 5 days a week? 7 days a week? Less day a week?

Time management is quite hard, especially when your time is filled up.

 

[MickoZ]

Also, I dunno in what you are studying, but chance are there is HB in your classroom?

Try to get with them? attract them, then say it is lame, and invite her to see a movie @ your home or anything else (sure it is a movie but at your home you have more option than in a theather and you can involve your bro for him to help you DJ that chick - haw!)

 

[Vanilla]

Usually the weekend is a family outing, but I told them that I'm my own man and deserve to go by myself, so this weekend I'll give it a shot. I really like the idea of hiring a HB for a babysitter, I could 'help out'. You guys give really sound advice. Thanks.

Also a quick FR, not a very good one but it's much better than being on the computer all the time.. from now on the comp is only there for typing my FR.

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Ditched one class, the married Romanian girl sort of clinging on to me as I'm leaving (I liked that). I figured I should treat myself and went lookin around the college, not much to see, but I didnt give up so easy like I've done before.

Since I never go to the college library I should try it at least once, but problem is the campus is huge so I'm lost. I figured this would be ample opportunity to ask a HB for directions, I spot one reading a book walking along side me, then I stop her and ask where it is, my God she was nice to me, I sort of hesitated and ditched way too early dropping an easy convo without a phone number, but I'm learning from my mistakes. So I go in, look around a bit, got bored with only asians in the place and left, meeting an old friend from highschool ***** about my number not working, when it actually does. Damn.

I basically went walking some more, these two chinese chicks singing from behind me, they were quite good sounding though, and I turn around and give a quick grin and they giggle. Made me feel ok, but I gotta come up with some quick thinking, so I sat for a while thinking about what to say when that happens next time .. "You guys sound like the next American (Asian?) Idols" kinda funny but insulting.

Since I had to take a few tests in a half and hour, I go down and ask a HB8 directions again to the south cafeteria, she really had a cold stare look, it phased me, and she knew nothing. Saw another HB sitting down, I come close just walking and she stares like the other girl, very cold with no emotion. I just walk on past. I need to work on dominating eye contact with a smile afterwards (mental note).

Took the test from 3pm-7pm.. though I was getting dizzy at the end since I hadn't eaten since the day before. Now I'm getting pumped for general education where people my age are at, rather than old hags at the technical department.

I'm having fun so far, just need more practice and bigger balls.

 

[Ice Cold]

Dude - you have a negative setup right now:

Most chicks are ugly
good chicks always talk on the cellphones.

Unless you're going to an all boys school, you're just making excuses.

Say to yourself that there are good chicks in your college. That the chicks want you to approach them. That the chicks are open.

Cheers