"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Tips for other women on this forum, when giving guys advice tell them opposite from what you really want-and then they will reverse it. I've cracked the D.J code."

Arrraghhhh...the...reverse...psychology.....mindgames! ;)

"Do you realise that virtually 90 percent of guy in England will rub their ****s against you whilst dancing in a night club"
90% of morons. I shudder to think what type of woman you will attract on the tiny chance that some girl actually takes pity on you.

"Yet being gentally stroked by someond on the hand is more arousing!"
Is that a fact? I'll remember that! :D

I actually think that mysterywoman is correct, only AFC's morons do the ****grind anyway, I think it is a total invasion of some one's personal space, and I generally tend to find that showing TOO much sexual interest in a NON-SUBTLE way can be a bad thing.
(I have read Gunwitch and I know it's important to show desire as well, Gunwitch tends to communicate desire through non verbal ways, but doesn't feel the girl up as soon as he says hello.)

Stroking a woman's palm sounds like a good one, it's sexual and intimate without being too invasive, plus you can pass it off as subtle kino.

My 2 Pennies.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Lionheart
"Tips for other women on this forum, when giving guys advice tell them opposite from what you really want-and then they will reverse it. I've cracked the D.J code."

Arrraghhhh...the...reverse...psychology.....mindgames! ;)

"Do you realise that virtually 90 percent of guy in England will rub their ****s against you whilst dancing in a night club"
90% of morons. I shudder to think what type of woman you will attract on the tiny chance that some girl actually takes pity on you.

"Yet being gentally stroked by someond on the hand is more arousing!"
Is that a fact? I'll remember that! :D

I actually think that mysterywoman is correct, only AFC's morons do the ****grind anyway, I think it is a total invasion of some one's personal space, and I generally tend to find that showing TOO much sexual interest in a NON-SUBTLE way can be a bad thing.
(I have read Gunwitch and I know it's important to show desire as well, Gunwitch tends to communicate desire through non verbal ways, but doesn't feel the girl up as soon as he says hello.)

Stroking a woman's palm sounds like a good one, it's sexual and intimate without being too invasive, plus you can pass it off as subtle kino.

My 2 Pennies.
Lion

Crack that whip MW..... now now now, that's not very british of you.. name calling? Ever heard of different strokes for different folks? What it means is, do what makes ya happy, (So long as it doesn't cause a murder, or anything ;) ) lets get on with it. You can stroke a woman's hand on the dance floor if you wish, personally, I would much rather grind, but hey, it's our right. Do what YOU feel you're comfortable with. The same people who you call AFC morons for 'grinding', would probably call you a terd for standing there, stroking a woman's hand in the middle of the dance floor. Invasion of privacy? Who's, mine? Let me tell ya something..... if a woman (like my g/f) is on the dance flooring, shaking what her momma gave her, and wants to put that butt up against me, I WILL NOT CONSIDER THIS AN INVASION OF MY PRIVACY, I swear to you this. ;) .....but I'l try that stroking her hand thing some other place.... like over a candle lit dinner, not on the dance floor. ;)
 
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