"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TOTALLY Wigging out with this girl be4 i go to Europe!

DrMetallica

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Okay, so I am totally gonzo for this girl who lives real close to me... we've screwed like 10 times. I want to have a romantic session (eg, SCREW!!) with her before I leave for europe (thursday). Tonight, I called her up, she told me to come over, I brought a bottle of liquor and got drunk, but nothing happened. I invited her to a nice cabin in the mountains (we have been there before, and it's like non stop sexo when we go) for my last night in america before i go to europe, but she denied because of a bullshíte excuse...

So, how do I do this?? I have 2 nights...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not going to sleep until someone responds to this! Seriously, I can't go to sleep, I can't stop thinking about her.
 

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If she invited u over and u guys drank and nothin happened and then u invite her to a cabin and she denies u then her IL is low and u will prolly not bang her.

Just dont talk to her at all, as long as she knows ur leavin thursday she will prolly contact u before u leave. Just play it cool.
 
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