Ok I'll try and keep this as short as possible. Basically been seeing this chick for about 5 weeks now, we get on really well, have great sex and the shes definetly long term material (or so I though).
Shes mentioned a few times that she was in a bad relationship last year (shes been single for 6 months), straight away this set alarm bells ringing as shes mentioned her past relationship far too much for my liking but it did geniunely seem that she was over him and didnt want anything more to do with him. As far I as was concerned she had no contact with him.
Fast forward to tonight. We're sitting in hers when her phone rings and she answers in a rather rude tone to whoever it was. She was rather unsettled and angry after the phone call but didnt speak about it. Anyway during the course of the next few hours she receives another two calls, she speaks rudely again and tells the caller bascially to f**k off.
Anyway as im about to leave we're kissing on her doorstep and she wishes me goodnight as I leave I see a car pull up outside her house. I think nothing of it as it could of been one of her flatmates friends or something.
An hour later I get a call of this girl, shes sobbing. Turns out it was ex bf who has been waiting outside her house, he'd seen her with me and waited till Id left then forced his way into her flat, slapped her in the face and bascially went mad shouting at her. Her flatmate rang the police and he left. This girl gave a statement to the police and told them her ex's address, the police told her they would arrest him and he if he comes to her flat again they will arrest him again.
Now obviously straight away I though, ditch this chick and get the hell outta this situation but after speaking to her im not so sure. On the one hand she appears to have been truthful with me and Im pretty sure she hasnt been seeing her ex (she lives with a mutual friend of mine) and that the whole letters needed by him for tax purposes was genuine. On the other hand im thinking that she hasnt completely washed her hands of him and hes still lurking around in the background (e.g. he knew about me because she had told him), despite her telling me otherwise.
What you guys think? Should I run for the hills or carry on and see how it pans out?
Shes mentioned a few times that she was in a bad relationship last year (shes been single for 6 months), straight away this set alarm bells ringing as shes mentioned her past relationship far too much for my liking but it did geniunely seem that she was over him and didnt want anything more to do with him. As far I as was concerned she had no contact with him.
Fast forward to tonight. We're sitting in hers when her phone rings and she answers in a rather rude tone to whoever it was. She was rather unsettled and angry after the phone call but didnt speak about it. Anyway during the course of the next few hours she receives another two calls, she speaks rudely again and tells the caller bascially to f**k off.
Anyway as im about to leave we're kissing on her doorstep and she wishes me goodnight as I leave I see a car pull up outside her house. I think nothing of it as it could of been one of her flatmates friends or something.
An hour later I get a call of this girl, shes sobbing. Turns out it was ex bf who has been waiting outside her house, he'd seen her with me and waited till Id left then forced his way into her flat, slapped her in the face and bascially went mad shouting at her. Her flatmate rang the police and he left. This girl gave a statement to the police and told them her ex's address, the police told her they would arrest him and he if he comes to her flat again they will arrest him again.
Now obviously straight away I though, ditch this chick and get the hell outta this situation but after speaking to her im not so sure. On the one hand she appears to have been truthful with me and Im pretty sure she hasnt been seeing her ex (she lives with a mutual friend of mine) and that the whole letters needed by him for tax purposes was genuine. On the other hand im thinking that she hasnt completely washed her hands of him and hes still lurking around in the background (e.g. he knew about me because she had told him), despite her telling me otherwise.
What you guys think? Should I run for the hills or carry on and see how it pans out?
