Total Geek Displays Alpha Traits

[Razor Sharp]

It's amazing what not giving a sh*t can do for people:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmiS0RNNp28

Dude is just goofing off and having fun, but look at how many people LOVE his vibe, and want to be a part of it. Many of them don't even realize they are on the big screen - they are just focused on the dancing lunatic who appears to be having the time of his life.

Look at how he just physically OWNS everyone there. A pound to the left, high fives to the right, hugs and forehead kisses all around. Not saying this is the best approach for pickup or anything, but that positive and contagiously fun attitude is incredibly attractive and it's something we should all integrate into our game.

You'd think he would be self-conscious, or afraid of looking like an idiot (which he does), but there is something about not having a care in the world that makes everyone else envious. The rest of us are too busy worrying about sh*t like money, conspiracies, female dramas - that when someone comes along who is FREE of all that baggage it's liberating just to be around them.

That's your homework as an aspiring DJ - shed the weight of what other people think, because its DEAD weight. Abandon any sense of self-importance or piousness and don't worry about making a fool of yourself - it will help you learn the lost art of having a good time.

BTW - Anyone who has real issues with this would benefit greatly from traveling. When you are not in your hometown, and in a place where you will probably never be seen again, it gives you license to do alot of things you;d normally be too inhibited to do - highly recommended

 

[Ease]

Lol to be fair the only thing nerdy about him is his appearance and his feminine way he moves.

Easily transformed.

 

[zekko]

That guy acts like he just got back from an RSD bootcamp lol.
He also acts like he's half baked.
There's more to this guy than just shedding his inhibitions. He looks like he is seriously pumped up on something.
Is this really what you want to aspire to?
Is this really the guy that you want to be?

I agree with the basic principle that you should shed your inhibitions though. Sometimes you need to just cut loose and have some fun. It's not good to place limitations on yourself.

 

[Captain]

A confident loser is better than a depressed loser. However, confidence doesn't make a loser into an interesting person that women want to fvck.

 

[runner83]

Reminds me of whenever I see a small car with a ridiculous size muffler.

Whenever I pull up next time at the lights, I think to myself "hey mister, you got any balls in mutha?"...and then smoke them at the green.

 

[kingsam]

this guy is cool as he has balls, doenst stick to social profiles, and every one brought into his "frame"

i wouldnt be suprised if hes one of those guys people love as whilst being a nerd he is also strangely cool, i know one of those people, he is really ugly so i nicknamed him "dog boy" when ifirst saw him, but every one loves him as he has the best personality and wit ever.

(this doesnt people like this gets chicks tho)

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

I give this give props for sure. And I agree with the premise that it would be good if we could all do what he did.

But really, this just doesn't fit some people's image/style/manner.......

I mean, can you imagine James Bond doing something like this?

 

[Razor Sharp]

You guys are funny

I wasn't trying to postulate that we should all strive to be this guy, lol. I was just trying to show that attractive behavior is not limited to any stereotype. It's not the dancing or goofing off itself that generates charisma - its the FREEDOM from what other people think to do whatever you want.

If you are naturally a goof, why fake the funk? Use it to your advantage! If you are not much of a talker or dancer, play into the brooding mystery card.

James Bond style is different but it's the same spirit too. The character felt like being a badass, taking out villains and shagging hot spies - so he did that. Unless I missed the movie where he went on a forum to ask for blessings of his lifestyle choices

The target of this post is inhibitions. While it's good to be in control of your emotions, you should never repress what you are!

 

[Voice]

This guy totally copied Lil' Jovi from Rutgers Football. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LXU_q67miU

Lil' Jovi is a Legend, this kid knows how to control the crowd. He even got interviewed by Erin Andrews. Yet somehow I doubt he's getting all the 7th grade girls.

 

[zekko]

I mean, can you imagine James Bond doing something like this?

Lol, that's hilarious. Maybe after a few too many martinis (shaken, not stirred).

Seriously, if this were caveman days, the alpha man of the tribe probably would have sliced this guy in half after his little dance. The theory goes that one of the reasons we have these social inhibitions in the first place is that in caveman days the alpha male would have struck you down if you tried to stand out too much.

I don't think this guy is alpha at all. But being uninhibited is a good thing, especially since these days an alpha male is unlikely to kill you with a rock if you get out of line.

 

[kingsam]

You guys are funny

I wasn't trying to postulate that we should all strive to be this guy, lol. I was just trying to show that attractive behavior is not limited to any stereotype. It's not the dancing or goofing off itself that generates charisma - its the FREEDOM from what other people think to do whatever you want.



The target of this post is inhibitions. While it's good to be in control of your emotions, you should never repress what you are!

yes many guys, as shown here, are afraid of what others think of them

the fact is people are too self obsorbed to care , they are all worried what every one if thinking of them!

you gotta live "your reality" - not be afrid who you are, or what you do, dont care...BREAK away from the repressive social conditioning!

if people dont get you/ think you are wierd* then its usually an inability on their part to accept differences (eg racism is an extreme example of this)

( * - do make sure you are NOT being wierd tho! and being emo/goth = wierd )

 

[ArcBound]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukGKZOp7jUQ&NR=1

 

[TrueDonJuan]

Absolutely true.

This guy is skinny and geeky. Yet for nearly 2 minutes, he has all these people looking to him as the life and soul of the event.

It is the same for guys in bands - and I don't neccessarily mean those who are famous and hence worth loads of money.

Very average, or even ugly guys, playing gigs around their local city get laid a lot. Why? Because they have the charisma and confidence to go crazy and show how passionate they are. Girls love that. When these guys put themselves on a social pedestal, the girls go with it.

 

[Kailex]

I wonder:

Had this NOT been a sports venue, would the people react the same as say: a park? a library? a mall?

Although he displays traits of not caring, sports venues typically encourage this type of behavior and people are instantly gratified for doing so with a standing ovation, high-fives, and a round of applause.

Still, Razor, I understand the underlying message you are trying to lay out: Simply, don't care either way.

 

[WalkingStick]

lol that blonde wants him SO BADLY. Dude is awesome, I dont think I'd have the balls to do that.

It really is 90% having the balls to go for it.

 

[Xericx]

FWIW, this guy is a "plant" by the arena.

They frequently do this and hire professionals who are fans to dance like this or air guitar.

 

[Xericx]

nm, saw linked above.....who knows if he's a plant or not.....doesn't matter i guess.

 

[Xericx]

this is the guy from the dodgers. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMusZJkTiBU&feature=related

 

[Xericx]

This is the clippers guy. He dances like this the entire game...gets no reaction though, people are ambivalent.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P57-RUXgwps

Sometimes he is sponsored by a company.