"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hello I am new to this forum but a long time lurker here and many other similar resources on the web. I am 38 but look younger from years in the gym and do quite well regardless of age when I care to put in the effort.

I don't subscribe to labels. Never have, but for the sake of clarity on this post I will classify myself as a part-time MGTOW dating back from my early twenties. I have spent a lot of my life alone. I don't regret the insights I have gained without distraction researching the world and working on myself as an individual.

I would like to talk theory, strategy and share entertaining stories and perhaps even offer assistance to fellow men who still value honour among men, respect and dignity. Friendship. Unfortunately at my age most of my old friends have lost the battle and are now a combination of fat, neutered, married and or glazed donuts on anti-depressants unaware of what has been forced upon them. It's not like you can have intellectual conversations about these things with women...

I really do find the whole topic of social dynamics and human interaction fascinating. If we get along well and I value your friendship I'm sure I could be convinced to assist you in the field as a rock solid, selfless albeit stoic wingman with exceptional insight and improvisational thinking skills. Who knows? Perhaps you may even be kind enough to throw an old wolf a bone every now and then yourself.

All ages welcome. Coffee or a drink from time to time in Toronto. Hit me up.

Happy hunting.

anv
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Set your profile so you are able to receive emails and I'll see what I can do. This better not be about that married woman you've posted about before though. You've already received all the advice you need on that one.
 

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Hey anv, i would like to meet up with you and have a chat. Shoot me a PM if you're still interested. Thanks.
 

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anv... hope you visit new york city l'd like to buy you a drink... so true most of my friends have gone the neutered route LOL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jiro!

Thank you kindly, I don't make it up there much I'm afraid. But likewise if you're ever on this side of the border, but consider yourself warned, we aren't just known for the cold weather.... ;)

Thanks for the kind message.
 

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solitaryone!

I'm new here and it's showing. I've tried to send you a PM but it says I do not have sufficient privileges. Help an old man who's had his e-privilege checked will ya? ;)

Feel free to contact me...if you can?
 

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I'll be around the Toronto area maybe next year if you want to get in touch. Just as a sidenote: I'm married but I like to make friends. :)
 
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