"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Toronto Social Network

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If you're from Toronto, get your ass down there IMMEDIATELY! Toronto Social Network (formerly Toronto Lair) is a group of seductionists from Toronto and surrounding areas. We meet every two weeks to discuss theory and sarge together very often (both daytime and nighttime). It's also the BEST place to find find wingmen (or just friends with similar interests), bar none.

Few things to keep in mind though. This is an EXCLUSIVE club, meaning that being a member if a PRIVILEDGE, not a right. And priviledges must be earned. No, we're not looking for donations. :D But we want you to show up and meet us before giving you a full membership. You'll get a temporary membership for the time being, and five weeks to come out to a meeting, at which point you'll be granted a full one. To sum it up:

- only people who are in toronto or often visit toronto
- only people who actually come out; no keyboard jockeys
- only people who genuinely want to improve themselves

when filling out the registration form, put 'mister corporate' in under 'referrer'

http://www.torontosocial.net
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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p.s. put 'max' under referrer instead. nickname change
 

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Edit: I went through the site a bit more carefully and it sounds fairly interesting. How many people actually show up? Is it only Sunday's you guys go out on?


Take Care.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gary, i've been pretty busy recently so i haven't been to a meeting in almost two months. I should be able to make it to the next one, since my MLTR has exams, which means i'll have time on Sunday. With that said, there was about a dozen people at the last meeting i attended. I heard that a lot more showed up at the first one i missed, since that's when TSN went up and meeting attendance (at least once in awhile) became mandatory. As a group, we only meet on Sundays, but many of us go sarging together almost every day of the week.
 

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Count me in, I live in Richmond Hill, but I can get to Toronto when I need to.
 

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Originally posted by tyciol
Count me in, I live in Richmond Hill, but I can get to Toronto when I need to.
Did you sign up and show up to a meeting yet?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey, welcome to SS! Nah, i missed it. Went out to sarge at Yorkdale instead.
 

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nice to see that ur posting something in support of the toronto community
 
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