"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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'Toronto Nov 22: Oakenfold @ Guv

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Toronto Nov 22: Oakenfold @ Guv / Picotto & Vath @ Kh

TORONTO - SATURDAY NOV 22
PAUL OAKENFOLD @ GUVERNMENT
MAURO PICOTTO / SVEN VATH @ KOOL HAUS

Death alone will stop me from hittin up this party! :D Who's with me?!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Too bad i don't really like Picotto or Vath, but Oakey alone would make this worth while! Its still good to have another room with good electronic beats to alternate between though ;)
 

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This event is getting split in two. For Oakenfold at Guvernment, there will be no advance tickets, just an $20 ($15 before 11PM) cover at the door. For Picotto and Vath at Kool Haus, there will be advance tickets costing upwards of $35, or higher at the door. I don't dig Vath or Picotto at all, so i'll be going to Guvernment to see Oakey as originally planned.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: W00T

Originally posted by fuzzx
I WILL BE THERE 4SURE!!!

I'll be the best dancer on the floor... you'll know who I am. :)
lol we'll see dem moves :)
 

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Re: W00T

Originally posted by fuzzx
I WILL BE THERE 4SURE!!!

WoW you helped me now I think I can help you :)

If your interested... I'll be the best dancer on the floor... you'll know who I am. :)
Right, i'm sure we'll spot you the instant we walk into a dark room filled with smoke and god knows how many thousands of people :D
 

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I am interested in attending this.

One request, for anyone who's planning on coming, would you consider bringing along a female friend who could be additional social proof?

I went with a few friends to tonic nightclub last night in toronto.. and I tried to take a good hard look at the dynamics that were at work in there.

I've just spent several hours reading through everything I could find on here about the clubbing environment, and being seen with a group of people is a *big* factor. A lot bigger than I had thought.

If you do bring a female, please make sure that she will be friendly and dance with the guys in our group. If she is standoffish, that will be very bad for business.
 

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Social proof makes little difference if its a party of this scale. Do you remember when we went to see Armin at Guv? The place was so dark and packed that it was nearly impossible to tell who's with who! Hell, me and vlad even lost ryan an hour after we came and i haven't seen him since! :D But either way, the more girls the better, so i'm with ya!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm so damn hyped about this! If you're gonna be there, let me know asap! If i don't have your cell, PM it to me
 

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I'm 6 years younger then you bud, so I can't really attend :p

However, don't worry about it. If no one shows just go yourself, and **** social proof and wingmen. If you can get at least 20 numbers tonight from HB's 8.5+ ALONE (without wingmen or social proof [even if they do come, just leave and find other groups and tell them you'll be back]), I will consider you a REAL DJ :)
 

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Hey Crassus - I wanna see some field reports from you.

What do you do there? Just sit around with the beer bottle ? :D;)
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Hey Crassus - I wanna see some field reports from you.

What do you do there? Just sit around with the beer bottle ? :D;)
What field report, man? Everyone vanished at the last minute as usual.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Krassus
What field report, man? Everyone vanished at the last minute as usual.
But I'm still intrested in what YOU did there, even without other DJs
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
But I'm still intrested in what YOU did there, even without other DJs
Didn't feel like waiting in line alone for an hour at 2AM. From now on, i'm gonna do things differently. Since i can't count on anyone, i'll make plans to go alone - if someone shows up... *gasp* .... then great, but if not, my original plan will still be in tact and i'll go alone if i have to. Check out a few of the threads i just started. I'll be at Gabriel & Dresden with or without you guys.
 
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