"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Apollo

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Originally posted by worstepisode
What happened to this thing? Did everyone just disappear and become AFC's again?
No, I'm trying to work on my game outside of T.O. where I live...I need a damn wingman in my area.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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djtdot

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newbie 18 yr DJ from UFT. Nice to meet yer all guys.
 

djtdot

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Originally posted by worstepisode
Hey, I'm lookin for newbie DJ's possibly from UofT St. George. I'm finding it hard to actually do this so maybe we can motive each other to get off our asses.
Hi, sup, me is from St Geroge.
 
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Sup. I"m from UofT St.George. Just started to get serious into this field. If anyone wants to go chopping together, just give me a pm. I"m into it. I'm 19, so most clubs and bars are no problem, but honestly, I perfer not to chop in those areas where chicks are getting chopped 5 times/minute.
 

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Male, 19.. gonna be attending Humber College in the fall.. I LOVE T-Dot
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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