"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Toronto Caribana Festival.

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Going on until Monday, August 7th, I thought everbody in Toronto already knew about this, but I decided to post this now anyway. I haven't gone myself, but was looking to see if anyone has went or has any interesting field or outing reports about it. If you are not into ethnic girls, then it may not be the best place, but I'm into them, and they would likely be lots of ethnic hb's of all stripes and colour.

I may be thinking of taking the subway down to Union or something, take the street car down to Lakeshore, and stroll around to see who is around if I'm up to leaving in the next few minutes.

If nobody is doing anything tommorow, then the website is
http://www.caribana.com for all the info. They are meeting again on Monday at Olympic island for something. My schedule is unstable so I wouldn't be able to hook up with anyone, but will solo sarge if I'm merging my bootcamp.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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