"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Torn between moral reasoning & my wants.

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Just like 20 min. ago I was surfing with I girl I went to highschool with we worked together but never really spoke much to. She's pretty damn hot 8.0+ if not 9.0 but with me a dime.

Anyways we been surfing and causualy chatting just getting reaquinted. Got out she made a massive complement about my looks :rolleyes: Massive IOI and all... she's has difinite high interest in me.

But she's with this semi afc/pua ( only thing in his life is women ) Older too like around 30 and me and her are 19 so dunno. He's semi-my-friend well atleast co-worker.

He's tried ( to my knowledge ) did or didnt tap this other busty hb hostess who has interest in me cause Im the DON MEGA MEGA MEGA (echoes!):rockon:


So Im wondering everyones take on this cause its not in my ethics to steal another girlfriend but I dont know if there more exclusive or what.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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no replies wtf you b^asterds...
 

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hey ain't no harm in trying is what my mom say they could just be friends
 

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hmm well you got to ask yoursefl soem questions , how much do you liek your co-worker ? do you consider him a friend ? do you see him being serious with the girl ? is the girl worth it ? and last but not least Would you really care if you took her from him....

imo i probably would go for the girl , ffs hes 30 and shes 19!! hes cant be looking for anything serious , and if shes giving out ioi to other guys then shes prolly not interested in him either , but she could be using him as her sugar daddy...dont become her sugar daddy if you go for her =P
 

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No sugar daddy here they would be happy with mccy d's dollar menu.

When I was surfing with her after ripping on this one wave. Paddled back out to beside her.. Got the ole 'sparkling eyes ' She even asked me if I was coming over ( either to the restaurant for whatever or more likely to her house or somewhere :rock: ) turned her down to build up the sexual tension alittle bit.

So... yeah Im starting to think I might go for her he isnt really an friend too much... and that their not serious so Im going to make her mine or atleast try.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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