"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gammergq

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Hey guys there is this girl I like but I dont feel like I have connected enough with her what topics do you guys think I should talk to her about I want get to know her but I just keep hitting sticking points maybe its a comfort thing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vice

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I used to have the same problem as you.

Actually, I still might have it, but it's getting better.

What you need to do is pick up on key words that she says and build on them.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Vice said:
What you need to do is pick up on key words that she says and build on them.
Exactly...
 

ready123

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what exactly have you guys talked about?

and to keep things in perspective, there ARE girls out there who are just plain boring
 
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