"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Doe Boii

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What is a good way to bring up the topic of sex on the phone when you're speaking to your girlfriend. She hints at it like she wants to talk about it, but i dont wanna come off sounding as a pervert or something...she brings it up like she wants me to come over.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lust

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Hehe sorry mate but that sounds kinda AFC to me.

But if you really want to know, i remember when i was together with my ex we'd talk about cuddling or something (This was wayyy before i found the PUA community).

Then we'd eventually talk about getting together at night blah blah blah.

But the thing is, if she is givinig hints, just go for it!

Don't think about it too much. If she speaks in a sexually suggestive tone, be ****y and Funny about it, tell her she is a naughty girl and that she must be spanked.
 

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Lust said:
Hehe sorry mate but that sounds kinda AFC to me.

But if you really want to know, i remember when i was together with my ex we'd talk about cuddling or something (This was wayyy before i found the PUA community).

Then we'd eventually talk about getting together at night blah blah blah.

But the thing is, if she is givinig hints, just go for it!

Don't think about it too much. If she speaks in a sexually suggestive tone, be ****y and Funny about it, tell her she is a naughty girl and that she must be spanked.
Sorry but i dont really waste my time learning meaningless abbreviations that wont help me out at all... but thanks for the answer it sounds like great advice and i'm gonna try it out.
 
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