"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not superficial women who focus only on "looks, money, status" or who respond positively to games...ugh. Such women have their own game and won't hesitate to play it with YOU. Good luck with that. Water attracts its own level.
lol at this.
ALL women have their own game mate.
Women are the sexual selectors .
They control the Game.

If a guy doesn’t have the Looks. He doesn’t get to find out , or try play the game at all.

This is the classic female frame towards men;

“ be honest with me, don’t try to play a game to me or lie to me or I’ll know. Be honest . vunerable , open up there and let me see what’s under the hood.
And just let me play MY game on YOU.”

:oops::eek::eek::eek:

and this 2nd part is agreeing me btw
Just one thing to add to @Cheeky_James .

After you asked, I shared with you via DM how my ((VERY HANDSOME)) boyfriend approached me at the party. You admitted it was pretty cool! :D Very natural and organic.

He displayed interest, I displayed interest

Just be real
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So reading what you just said the game with women can be Boiled down to

(A) Be as great Looking as possible and get Attraction (the make or break step)
(B) Approach and open
(C) display real interest and real intent (sexual)
(D) maintain being ‘real’ and flirt
(E) escalate and close

so what are all y’all saying about all this other Self Improvement again???

lol.

yes so the logical follow on is - just focus on Looksmaxxing. Mainly. And then approaching.

No need to personalityMaxx . Cos it doesn’t matter as much, it’s a much, much lesser slice of the pie. As I’ve been saying. Work on projecting sexuality after the open and showing real interest in the woman. ( this is a real problem for guys) that’s not really ‘personality ‘ btw - it’s a primal thing. Showing desire , shamelessly.

So thank you for getting there and agreeing with me.
High Five! :)
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're cherry picking my posts CJ, focusing only on the things I've said that support your argument, in some instances twisting my words, adding your own narrative. And disregarding things I've said that don't. Which is fine, par for the course. Lol

so what were you saying about all this other Self Improvement again???
I never mentioned self-improvement. My posts focused on the natural "chemistry/energy" happening between two people and how looks play a role in that albeit subjectively. Which apparently you don't understand or experienced so it may have been a mistake to even bring it up.

Not to mention this is a seduction forum. So yeah in retrospect I should not have mentioned it..

I will leave it there and allow you the last word, that seems important to you.

All the best man.
 
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You're cherry picking my posts CJ, focusing only on the things I've said that support your argument, in some instances twisting my words, adding your own narrative. And disregarding things I've said that don't. Which is fine, par for the course. Lol



I never mentioned self-improvement. My posts focused on the natural "chemistry/energy" happening between two people and how looks play a role in that. Which apparently you don't understand or experienced so it may have been a mistake to even bring it up.

Not to mention this is a seduction forum. So yeah in retrospect I should not have mentioned it..

I will leave it there and allow you the last word, that seems important to you.

All the best man.
I edited my post quickly after posting.
Pls re-read.
I thought I was replying to BeExcellent as I was writing that out. lol. (I’m always getting my women mixed up ! :p:lol:lol)

not cherry picking or twisting. Just tryna boil it down SG. To what’s really happening in a pickup between a man and a woman.
Boil it down to ‘Best Strategies & Practices’ and stages, step by step.

BECAUSE… this is how ALL my pickups have basically gone down. I do that same process over and over and over again. :D Trust and believe !

just thought it might help other guys too . Yknow. ;) Might be useful.

And lol at the chemistry/energy thing related to Looks. Yes I know exactly how that works babe. Cos I’m pretty good looking.
And that’s what I’m saying here. Over and over.
Chemistry is created by Looks. (In the first instance , which leads to more chemistry in the following instance )

And if the chemistry ain’t there. It’s over. The guy is toast.

and don’t leave it there pls! I have something else for you and BE. A fun challenge … :D
 
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