RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Initially Resect Everyone: Let me clarify, I do not mean to respect people who are not deserving of respect, but you should always start off with everyone you come across that they are deserving of respect until they prove otherwise.
Everyone you meet knows something you don't. Everyone that does anything in life performs a function that is needed. The man that picks up your garbage is just as important to your day to day life is the CPA that does your taxes every year. People are formed by their experiences, there are reasons why people do the things they do and the beliefs they have
Getting and maintaining respect is the key to having a successful life and the easiest way to get respect from others to to respect them first. Even people that you do not agree with, or not particularly like. As long as they reciprocate respect for you and your opinions, you should maintain the veneer of respect. There are plenty of people in my life that I have little in common with, and almost completely disagree with everything they say and do. But as long as they are consistent, do not allow our disagreements to balloon into open resentment, and return respect for me and my opinions I will respect them. I have a blue-haired lesbian feminist who is an acquaintance.... we disagree on just about everything, I think we could be friends but regrettably her other 'friends' are not as respectful and allow our differences to shape their behavior, we two get along fine... we can have discussions about things without it turning into a childish food fighting rant.
Sometimes you have to burn bridges and make enemies, but you shouldn't do this unnecessarily, or be the first one to do this. Making enemies is not the best way to go around in life. Your enemies will find you without helping them, looking for confrontation by blundering around in a disrespectful manner is a waste of time and energy.
Everyone you meet knows something you don't. Everyone that does anything in life performs a function that is needed. The man that picks up your garbage is just as important to your day to day life is the CPA that does your taxes every year. People are formed by their experiences, there are reasons why people do the things they do and the beliefs they have
Getting and maintaining respect is the key to having a successful life and the easiest way to get respect from others to to respect them first. Even people that you do not agree with, or not particularly like. As long as they reciprocate respect for you and your opinions, you should maintain the veneer of respect. There are plenty of people in my life that I have little in common with, and almost completely disagree with everything they say and do. But as long as they are consistent, do not allow our disagreements to balloon into open resentment, and return respect for me and my opinions I will respect them. I have a blue-haired lesbian feminist who is an acquaintance.... we disagree on just about everything, I think we could be friends but regrettably her other 'friends' are not as respectful and allow our differences to shape their behavior, we two get along fine... we can have discussions about things without it turning into a childish food fighting rant.
Sometimes you have to burn bridges and make enemies, but you shouldn't do this unnecessarily, or be the first one to do this. Making enemies is not the best way to go around in life. Your enemies will find you without helping them, looking for confrontation by blundering around in a disrespectful manner is a waste of time and energy.
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