"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mentor Someone: Some jobs, or just operating in a personal life, this just happens naturally. When I was an Army officer, it was always expected that you would mentor junior officers assigned under you... and I just carried this on in practice in my civilian life. If you are a parent... you might not realize that you are a 'mentor' but you are. But you should always think of parenting as mentoring. I think many people think of parenting like this... it's all responsibility for care of your children... but you should also not think of this as just responsibility, but also helping your children become successful adults.

I really don't care what you do for a living... there is someone that can benefit from your experience, so find someone you think you can help.. that you want to see succeed and start being a mentor. Why do this? Well, it keeps your skills fresh, keeps you tied in with emerging trends.... connects you with the younger generation so that you don't become one of those pathetic engineers sitting in his cubical who only gets projects for older product lines complaining about new technology. When you mentor you keep fresh, and can learn just as much from them as they learn from you. While they benefit... so do you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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