"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Top student, decent guy, difficult situation

N

Nick1886

Don Juan
Joined
May 6, 2012
Messages
59
Reaction score
0
Hey lads it feels a bit weird coming on here but I could use some advice.

I'm quite a lad and football (soccer) is my only real interest - even though I'm popular with guys I have 0 female friends - not exactly DJ behaviour.

I even know that at least one girl is into me but I don't really feel the same way and I'd only commit for the physical side of the relationship which probably isnt the right approach. Anyway I just wanted some advice from other people my age as to how to increase my DJ standing because there's definitely peer pressure in regard to earning some stripes if you know what I mean!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

N

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
Check out my signature.

Your whole post is reactive. Take control of your life and seek things, including girls, that you want. It all starts with you taking more control and trying harder.
 
A

alxrose04

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2012
Messages
116
Reaction score
2
Well right off the bat, it sounds like you got a lot going for you, which is great. Girls will smell that success on you. Next I would say talk to every girl. Big, small, young, old, pretty, ugly. What that will do is give you practice. By talking to everyone, your conversating skills will go through the roof! A nice side effect will be that those girls will think you're awesome and start introducing you to their friends and the cycle of awesomeness will continue.

Another side piece of advice is, when you are curious about something or have a question about something.......ask a girl. It's more fun and guys just give you answers an leave. Girls, if they like you, have a tendency to stay and look cute for you. Hope this helps. Good luck!

Cheers!
 
N

Nick1886

Don Juan
Joined
May 6, 2012
Messages
59
Reaction score
0
alxrose04 said:
Well right off the bat, it sounds like you got a lot going for you, which is great. Girls will smell that success on you. Next I would say talk to every girl. Big, small, young, old, pretty, ugly. What that will do is give you practice. By talking to everyone, your conversating skills will go through the roof! A nice side effect will be that those girls will think you're awesome and start introducing you to their friends and the cycle of awesomeness will continue.

Another side piece of advice is, when you are curious about something or have a question about something.......ask a girl. It's more fun and guys just give you answers an leave. Girls, if they like you, have a tendency to stay and look cute for you. Hope this helps. Good luck!

Cheers!
Click to expand...


its just a bit difficult when you've known the same girls for five, six years but never really spoken to them though - feels a bit obvious to suddenly start chatting to them. I cant really complain about life in general but I've never been successful AT ALL with women.

Im thinking wait till the summer and try and find some extracurricular clubs to meet girls from out of school because whenever I think about asking girls out in school I think it could end up messy even if im successful.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Z

Zurg

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2012
Messages
25
Reaction score
0
Yeah I agree, just talk with them dude! You want to talk to them right? What's withholding you is probably just the thought that they will find it weird that you suddenly talk to them. But dude, it's your life and you shouldn't not do something you want to do because of some standards you're trying to uphold you didn't even make. They probably even WANT to talk to you, and if they do find it strange, SO WHAT? It's not like they will beat you to death or something.
Just go for it man and don't let others decide how you live your life.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top