"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Top Songs of 2008

Bussey

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I'm always trying to find new good music, and I'm sure there's others out there too who're the same way. Post up anything you like that's new.

Hip Hop
Shorty Get Loose - Lil Mama Feat. T-Pain + Chris Brown
Elevator - Flo Rida Feat. Timbaland
Get Low - Flo Rida Feat. T-Pain
Listen Here - Eye Ronic
Don't Stop The Music - Rihanna
Kiss Kiss - Chris Brown feat. T-Pain
Apologize - Timbaland Feat. OneRepublic (Original is good too)
Good Life - Kanye West Feat. T-Pain
Sensual Seduction - Snoop Dogg


Club/Dance/House

Summerfish - Leonid Rudenko
Tiny Dancer - Marco Demeck & Casey Barnes
Let Me Think About It - Ida Corr (E-Bonit Remix)
5 Minutes - MBrother

Rock/Pop
(I Want Those) Flashing Lights - Colin Munroe :up: Get it!:up:
Long Road To Ruin - Foo Fighters
Piece of Me - Britney Spears (I know.... its catchy though lol)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i am me

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for hip hop, u can basically put anything with chris brown, t-pain, or timbaland on it

have u heard "I'm so hood"? gets u pumped like crazy...get the remix if u can
 

Microphone Fiend

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Im predicting that anything dropped/remixed by the following will be big

Bart B. More
Laidback Luke

and the guy hitting the scene hard since 'Tetris' dropped:

Kid Dub
 

BMX

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The song by Lupe Fiasco and Matthew Santos
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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