"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Top Reasons Why Women Leave Men

Tiguere

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"I hurt all the time because I feel alone and abandoned."
"My husband is no longer my friend."

"The only time he pays attention to me is when he wants sex."

"He is never there for me when I need him the most."

"When he hurts my feelings he doesn't apologize."

"He lives his life as if we weren't married; he rarely considers me."

"We're like ships passing in the night, he goes his way and I go mine."

"My husband has become a stranger to me, I don't even know who he is anymore."

"He doesn't show any interest in me or what I do."



can a expert please translate each statement and what they really mean???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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betheman

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Tiguere said:
"I hurt all the time because I feel alone and abandoned."
"My husband is no longer my friend."

"The only time he pays attention to me is when he wants sex."

"He is never there for me when I need him the most."

"When he hurts my feelings he doesn't apologize."

"He lives his life as if we weren't married; he rarely considers me."

"We're like ships passing in the night, he goes his way and I go mine."

"My husband has become a stranger to me, I don't even know who he is anymore."

"He doesn't show any interest in me or what I do."



can a expert please translate each statement and what they really mean???
to all of them...he no longer fills the void, the drama has gone, that tingle has gone I need to find it (or have found it) elsewhere
 

nismo-4

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Tiguere said:
"I hurt all the time because I feel alone and abandoned."

I'm waiting to see if the white knights will come along who will let me cry on them.

"My husband is no longer my friend."

He only bangs me and forgets about me like the x number of cads (alphas) I had before and still lust for.

"The only time he pays attention to me is when he wants sex."

He's aware of his value and hers.

"He is never there for me when I need him the most."

He's tired of being used, and rarely allows himself to be. Can you say unavailability?

"When he hurts my feelings he doesn't apologize."

He's not putting me on a pedestal, he's chipping away at the one the legions of betas already put me on!

"He lives his life as if we weren't married; he rarely considers me."

He's getting love elsewhere and showing he's got options.

"We're like ships passing in the night, he goes his way and I go mine."

Not married. Separated. That's the right word.

"My husband has become a stranger to me, I don't even know who he is anymore."

He's not a slave to my golden vagina!

"He doesn't show any interest in me or what I do."

He puts himself first.

can a expert please translate each statement and what they really mean???
Easy, she's whining about this sh*t to beta males and her friends and keeps on going back to this jerk!
 

VladPatton

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I hope that dude signs up at SoSuave and gives us some crackin tips!
 

namismybabe

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nismo-4 said:
Easy, she's whining about this sh*t to beta males and her friends and keeps on going back to this jerk!
Or you have Asperger's or something and don't get how people react to thinga....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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namismybabe

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Tiguere said:
"I hurt all the time because I feel alone and abandoned."
"My husband is no longer my friend."
Could mean she is an attention *****, or that her husband doesn't talk to her.
"The only time he pays attention to me is when he wants sex."

"He is never there for me when I need him the most."
Yeah, and spouses supporting each other is evil...
"When he hurts my feelings he doesn't apologize."

Yeah, verbal abuse is valid...
"He lives his life as if we weren't married; he rarely considers me."

"We're like ships passing in the night, he goes his way and I go mine."

"My husband has become a stranger to me, I don't even know who he is anymore."

"He doesn't show any interest in me or what I do."



can a expert please translate each statement and what they really mean???
All of those seem reasonable to me. If you had a wife, you wouldn't ensure she felt respected? I don't see how sustaining a healthy marriage makes one an AFC. Ask your married friends or even your parents if they call each other ***** or ****er what the other will say....
 

Mike32ct

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Tiguere said:
"I hurt all the time because I feel alone and abandoned."

I'm a clingy co-dependent.


"My husband is no longer my friend."

He doesn't put up with my shyte.

"The only time he pays attention to me is when he wants sex."

I feel like his personal love toy, not his partner.

"He is never there for me when I need him the most."

He is too distant.

"When he hurts my feelings he doesn't apologize."

He doesn't know he's hurting my feelings. Nevertheless, I give him the silent treatment.

"He lives his life as if we weren't married; he rarely considers me."

I can't control hm.

"We're like ships passing in the night, he goes his way and I go mine."

We settled in a roommate relationship. We don't feel like a couple.

"My husband has become a stranger to me, I don't even know who he is anymore."

He's much more independent than the guy I married.

"He doesn't show any interest in me or what I do."

Literal.

can a expert please translate each statement and what they really mean???
These are tricky ones. I did the best I could.
 
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