Top Level DJing.

[Walden]

Am working on my street djing cos I'm not in college any more
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Saw a way cute blonde girl in starbucks , got to talking at the counter where you wait for your coffee (a good line here is to look at the barrista and say something about how he miust get performance anxiety, oh well it worked today ).

Nothing but solid Djing asked her to join me , mad C+F , high IL , all money.

Unfortunately she's travelling and her one day off is sunday when I'm (you guessed it) on duty. But we made plans to get together when she gets back. Really good rapport , amazed at how effective C+F was today.She told me like three times that I'm "cool" Enough to give a guy a swelled head hearing that from a hot woman.

Things I did right
*picked a condfident , outgoing chick.
*tried for the instant date

Things I coulda done better
*she had to go home for a bit , I shoulda been aiming to go home with her (ala suavedave).

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Dag gum it , a cute one rolled out of play before I could mack on that ass. I suck

 

[Walden]

Today was crap DJing wse , a couple CAs , nothing really money (the hottest chick I saw and she was a friendava friend and I didn't know her name , which made for a sucky close...(excuses excuses).

I think I'm letting the idea of this being a "numbers game" excuse sloppy DJing on my my part.

(I know this isn't much of a FR but that sound you hear in the background is the gears churning in my head as things start to slot into place).

I'm at the level now where I have the balls to make approaches , and skills to back it up , but I'm letting myself get away with poor technique.The next level for me will be to get low IL CAs to laugh a bit, and to get that IL up on that first play.
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HBJailbait is being a pain , it's just so hard to ditch the cute ones!

 

[Walden]

October Week 4 (short week)

Okay so I've been thinking about my performance lately.

This month I met my goals , got 2 numbers a week all month and a new laybuddy on the team (go that sh*t!!).

However it has been like a lot of hard work.
This month I made somewhere around 25 CAs, got 10 numbers and went out with 4 different women.

Of them I laid one, NEXTed one , and two are still in play (one with okay looking percentages and the other looking more and more woody as time goes by).

While I'm happy that I went out and got the lay , I'm still getting more wood than Ron Jeremy and more pastry than the Swedish Chef.Theres a difference between playing the percentages and being played by the percentages.

So I need to up my game a bit here for several reasons.
Firstly , 25 CAs in 28 days is a massive rate, like practically a second job
Secondly I've just finished college so I'll be making less CAs from now on , not more.
Finally whilst I am only going for casual sex at the moment , I don't like the idea of seeing my 10 someday and approaching with only a 4% chance of getting that as5.

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So from now I'm going to go for more instant dates , I'm gonna try some club DJing on (dammit I'ma hafta buy me a new pimpin' shirt) and generally pursue more aggressively.

As always any advice or feedback appreciated.

 

[Walden]

So there's no magic bullet...

Having decided that I'd contine the experiment at the start of next month , I spent a day at college, choking like a total whiney beotch.

Go figure...

I guess cos I didn't have a set goal for performance I just accepted whatever came up.
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In the name of pure scientific experimentation, tomorrow I have to go to town for a couple hours. I am going to get a number tomorrow.

There that's my goal.

 

[Walden]

With a set goal to aim for I choked twice but made four approaches , two of which were the money but none of which resulted in a successful close.

Still I am happy that the experiment seems to be well working in that my motivation is better than it was.

 

[SamePendo]

Originally posted by Walden
Still I am happy ...

Thats what is important here. Great .

 

[Walden]

October (Summary).

I did three weeks of training this month cos I started in a bit late and got my lay earlier than expected.

Having set goals massively improved my consistency in making approaches , to an extent where I'm more capable than ever before of just moving on in. In B/C I was just forcing myself to make them and now it seems like I am internally motivated to play and play well.

Use of C+F served me really well with Rackgirl and has served me well on a CA I did yesterday (got the number). I think it's primarily a help because it forces you to be in charge of the situation rather than supplicating.

However this month has really been a numbers game which is a pretty low church for of DJing and I need to improve that.

I also have another DJ to bechmark myself against.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=40798

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=40939

Player_supreme's style (as I understand it) is characterised by two elements. He guages IL before moving in very carefully , which enables him to be in charge cos he only closes chicks that have high IL.This enables him to reverse the usual "chasing" game.

It's money but I don't know how useful it'll be to me cos P_S has the advantage of (A) being good looking and (B) about 20 years of DJing.

 

[Walden]

November (Goals)

This month I will

Get 3 numbers a week.
Get 2 new lays this month.
Do 5 Hi's this week.

Okay so the hi thing sounds straight outta boot camp but there's a reason. I've been trying to spot IL in chicks in my environment. I have a great vibe I throw where you smile , like you're sharing a little secret with the chick, for some reason this totally lights them up. Problem is , having done so , I don't seem to get to open them in convo I just get the big grin and off we both go. Hence I need to practice an engaging greeting, so these "Hi's" will be along the lines of <smile>"Hi , how's it going?" <stop walking>.

 

[Walden]

November Week 1

Allright I'm willing to own up to it , my DJing this week has sucked great big hairy rhinocerous di{k.

Really this week would be a poor weeks DJing for my grandmother to have turned in.

I'm taking over my new flight and work but that's only part of the reason that I haven't got much DJing in.

I"m going to take a remedial saturday (5 rejections 3 hours) which usually gets me back in the game , and start again next week.

 

[Walden]

A Saturday 5

5 Rejections today.
Certainly clears the cobwebs out , I started out choking like a beotch and finished making a street SWSnc on a solid 9.

Lessons learned in training today C+F is the money , I found when I was CAing a hot 8 (blonde german tourist ) I found a detail to tease her about (she dissed my town so I ripped on her about that) it was funny , we bonded , it put me in a money position.

On the hot 9 I shoulda gone with ripping on her about working in a gym and still having unhealthy "habits" (she was eating a cheesburger , smoking and drinking coffee). But I didn't. Oh well.

Still, doing a hard 5 this morning has gotten me straight back into the zone (and I got a good lead on an 8 who offered her number who I'm gonna call next week).

 

[Walden]

November Week 2

Dammit , this week I've geen working and training like a beotch , and have had time to make all of two CAs. One of which I left hanging cos I didn;t stick-and-move and the other I left hangign cos she was a "dependant" of someone on the base (and I wasn;'t happy with macking on the wife/girlfriend of a comrade) am beginning to think that was a chumps excuse though.

Am considering bagging this experiment cos am simply not gettig enough time to devote to it.

 

[Walden]

Gentlemen , thank you for your posts and comments.
I'm not getting enough time at them moment to pursue this thread as I'd like (between 3 laybuddies and full time training it's just not a happening thing).

I'm hoping to develop what I've learned on this thread (the value of having set goals for performance, into a more short term kinda 'blitz' excercise (may be 15 CA's in 3 hours or something) and seperately work on my ss skills.

So thanks for keeping me honest as always , and good hunting.