"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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very simple...palm reading, if your alone with a girl and the mood is swinging all the sudden settle down with her and offer a palm reading, it's easy check this out: http://www.ofesite.com/spirit/palm/lines.htm if you do it good you can get some very sensual kino out of this.

dont go pulling her arm n **** tho, just ask her for her hand and go like WOW...you have a great sex line ^^!! simply put the tip of your finger on the line and gently move it up and down the line while explaining what it is, she probably doesent even give a **** for what you are saying but her mind is going: WOW i havent felt a tickle this exciting since...since... wait I NEVER HAD A SENSUAL FEELING LIKE THIS!! also tone your voice down a bit.

just try and find out yourself ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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horaholic

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Thumbwars are good too.
 

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lol I dont know if ur serious, but I think your right hehe
 

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Palm reading is played out in my opinion, and a bit cheesy for my preference in escalating kino.

Another great alternative is to put the "TRUST" test on her.

Ask her.. "Wanna play the trust game? I can tell whether you trust me now or not" -- I've never been declined.

Here's what you do.

Let your both your hands out, tell her to place her hands on each of yours.

Then, lean back. If she leans forward to you, it indicates that she trusts you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The friendly shove.

Playfully exerts your dominance, the woman sees you as socially superior and strong.
Works very well on girls who love to be dominated and are submissive.

Sounds quite controversial, so I'm wondering if anyone else has similar experiences.
 

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very interesting thread. As mentioned above, I've always considered thumbwars and the playful shove quite effective. (never used thumbwar though!)

Not so sure about palm reading though, seems like a bit of a desperate attempt:confused:

A less creative one here but, hand on the lower back. its good cos its flexible, you can lean in to tell her something quietly and use it...you can use it standing at a bar or wherever really, and it can be used playfully or more intensely.

I've been reminded, once when I was dating a girl, I used a cash machine and she grabbed the money and hid it...back at her place and she wouldn't give it back to me, but instead invited me to find it from her...I thought it was down her top, I was wrong. I thought it was down her pants, I was wrong. In the end it was in her ass pocket of her trousers...but it wasn't about the money at that point LOL.

Dj In Hell
 

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CaptainJ said:
The friendly shove.

Playfully exerts your dominance, the woman sees you as socially superior and strong.
Works very well on girls who love to be dominated and are submissive.

Sounds quite controversial, so I'm wondering if anyone else has similar experiences.
You have to develop some rapport, but this is FAR more better than palm reading. When she initiates it, you know game's on

I have never thumb wrestled a girl. I might try it just to see what the results are, but I'm not holding my breath.
 

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the friendly shove, perfect... good thing u guys made me notice i overestimated the palm thing... I learn every visit here.
 

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Thumbwars generate attraction. Its impossible to not have fun doing it. Its even better when when you bet something on the outcome.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thumb war is cool....

...if you're dealing with a somewhat intelligent chick ask her if she wants to play "cold thumb war" - grab her hand and pull your thumb away. I don't know, always gets a laugh for me, plus now you're holding her hand.
 

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No palm reading boys, that's gay as hell.

I like
-the hand on her waist
-leaning in close to her neck
-leg rubbing
-arm wrestling
-hand on the ass
 

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Like 90% of my kino game is just light pokes/shoves/tickling/etc. and stuff like that along with touching lightly during the conversation. If i'm feeling ballsy or it's there I'll do arm in arm or around shoulder or something. Also, if you are with girls that are friends, and can kino one girl, you can more or less automatically kino all the other girls up to that level if they've seen you do it.
 

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Pushin' 'em around seems to make them more flirty with me for some reason.

So does slappin' 'em on the arse, I never used to slap chicks on the arse, but the other night I saw a chick who I hadn't seen in ages, and she was being a little flirty, so I slapped her on the arse on my way back to the seat for the heck of it, I don't even know why since it didn't actually cross my mind to do it until after I done it, wound up getting a decent kiss from her later and we gonna meet up later this week.

This is the first chick I've actively known what I was doing with sorta thing, like I decided **** it, she don't know me, so I just decided to be myself and do what I would do if I didn't care about anyone elses thoughts.

This site actually helped me there, I only wound up here 'cuz a mate knew I was stuck on one chick, most of it was just stuff I read then whatever, I'd forget about it, 'til the other night when as I said, I just thought "**** it".
So I'm improving, and filling your thread with a long arse post for the sake of it.

I've also noticed poking chicks seems to get their attention too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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