"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Top five women's sexual fantasies in 2013

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So what has changed since 1973? Gender and sexual fluidity makes a strong appearance: people who are normally straight fantasising about gay sex, and vice versa; dressing up as or having the sex organs of another sex, and so on. With more awareness of differences in gender identification and sexual orientation hitting the mainstream, it's no surprise these are more prevalent now than they were 40 years ago.
What's changed since 1973 is a massive push from the cathedral to sell the "appeal" of gay sex, dominant sex and cuckolding to women. As successful as it has been it's still only a reality to beta's. The men she actually wants will never hear the words "You know...it would be really hot if you let me peg you up the ass". That honour is only bestowed to the unsatisfying herb who still thinks he needs a big sack of tricks and believes women's sexual fantasies change like the wind.
 

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Step One

Spend a few grand doing interviews with females across the board, asking loaded questions to elicit plenty of responses that make for good sex stories.

Step Two

Group all the various "answers" into different groups.

Step Three

Take these "groups" and give them a "current affairs" kind of spin (like what does the modern woman want, or whatever)

Step Four

Put it together in a book

Step Five

Get plenty of free press

Step Six

Sit back, and collect the revenues.
 
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