"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Top 10 Reasons Men and women get dumped

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Top 10 reasons why Guys (and Girls) get dumped.

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/top-10-reasons-why-were-dumped-200900432.html


I love that "Bad hygiene" is the #2 reason that men dump girls. I'm trying to figure out what that REALLY means....Stinky vag? She gave him chlamydia?

Oh, and the #1 reason that girls dump guys?

::drum roll::

Ah, f**k it, you guys already know - "There's someone else."

Women are some branch-swinging little monkeys aren't they...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ah yes, there's someone else.

It should be the easiest one to swallow, but they usually never admit that's the reason.

Even when we know that's the reason we still know we weren't perfect so we question what we might have done differently.
 
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Too hairy. :D

I don't care for the reasons I am dumped, if I am dumped, then I am dumped. I swallow that bitter pill and soldier on with life.
 

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"There's someone else."

well duh, what decent looking girl is ever single for more than a couple months tops, none!

so they are either falling in love insanely easily OR they are branch swinging.
 
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st_99 said:
"There's someone else."

well duh, what decent looking girl is ever single for more than a couple months tops, none!

so they are either falling in love insanely easily OR they are branch swinging.
Love is the opium of the mind. It doesn't exist which is why people waste their lives chasing after it.

Those who chase the concept of love are insecure people who deserve nothing but the scruff of loneliness until their dying day.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Love definitely exists. It's not what people think though. It's just a glimpse of forever, it doesn't last forever.

We still seek it regardless, so we are likely to find it even if we don't know exactly what it is.
 

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Top 10 Reasons women dump men:

2: Our dietary habits differ too much.
4: Too short
5: You don't make enough money for the lifestyle I want to live.

All very good reasons to dump someone. Congrats ladies, you truly are logical creatures.
 

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Interesting... "Nice" isn't on there. Probably cause its not a reason. Just taken out of context. "You're a nice guy, but [real reason they don't give]". Guess you can't blame the guys for thinking its BECAUSE you're nice - when they don't give you **** else.
 

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wth does "too short" mean? did they shrink during the relationship? did they go from being 5'10" to 5'5" in 2 months or something? i thought height was a deal breaker in the beginning, not in the middle of a fvcking relationship.
 

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Robert28 said:
wth does "too short" mean? did they shrink during the relationship? did they go from being 5'10" to 5'5" in 2 months or something? i thought height was a deal breaker in the beginning, not in the middle of a fvcking relationship.

It sounds like one of those dumb things girls say after the fact. Like, there were 20 reasons why the relationship didn't work, but all she can blurt out is "He was too damn short."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Iceberg said:
It sounds like one of those dumb things girls say after the fact. Like, there were 20 reasons why the relationship didn't work, but all she can blurt out is "He was too damn short."
haha yeah and two days, two weeks, or two months later you'll see the same ol' hoebag on the arm of a guy AS short, if not shorter then the guy she dumped for being "too short".
 

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The reason "nice" isn't on this list is because the whole "nice" thing is completely overstated by the pickup community.

For some reason, PUAs seem to think every man's problem with women is that he's too nice. When in reality there are a lot of different reasons guys have trouble with women.

You go through all this trouble turning yourself into a jerk, when maybe all you really need to do is take a bath.
 

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zekko said:
The reason "nice" isn't on this list is because the whole "nice" thing is completely overstated by the pickup community.

For some reason, PUAs seem to think every man's problem with women is that he's too nice. When in reality there are a lot of different reasons guys have trouble with women.

You go through all this trouble turning yourself into a jerk, when maybe all you really need to do is take a bath.
"Nice" is a term women use to encompass an array of reasons why a man is not appealing and consequently desexualized. The PUA community overemphasizes the focus women place on "nice guys." In other words, although most of the time the term refers to a male not qualified to fulfill the logical and subconscious desires of a female, sometimes it may also genuinely signify a quality rather than a negative trait.

Don't go into mechanical mode and always have the same reaction to the term "nice"--take the tone, body language of the speaker, and the context of the conversation into consideration before making an inference. And if all else fails you can always ask "what did you mean by that?" If you get the nice guy speech tied to something negative, then you know what that means. If she gives you positive traits and associates them with the term nice, then you are gold.

Keep being money,

-Rob
 

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HariPoter13 said:
2: Our dietary habits differ too much.


Fuck me if I can understand this one.
B1tch doesnt like meat.

He eats an hamburger watching the football while she is on ice cream while watching soap operas.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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