"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Top 10 Places to Meet Women (Prorated!)

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I just moved to a new city in Oklahoma and met so many farm girls (average age 24) that I had to make a list.

Below are 25 examples of women who I just met, who I consider HB8 or better, and who are realistic romantic prospects (along with where I met them). I grouped them to remove redundancy, and prorated based on the number in each category.

6 Strippers (24%) - Note the strippers in OK are NOT hookers AFAIK.
4 Bartenders (16%) - I usually dine at the bar.
4 Game room workers (16%) Bowling alley, Billiard.
3 Waitresses (12%) - Usually within earshot of the bar.
2 Organic Grocers (8%) - Cashiers.
2 Hotel workers (8%) - Concierge and manager.
1 Hairdresser (4%) - Knock Outs is a great chain!
1 Hostess (4%) - Breakfast place.
1 Girl selling energy drinks (4%) - at Whole Foods.
1 Girl at a bar (4%) - who I later discovered was an off-duty stripper.

So to summarize meet women at these places (in order of likelihood):

Top Ten

  1. Strip clubs
  2. Bars
  3. Game rooms
  4. Restuarants
  5. Organic Grocers
  6. Hotels
  7. Salons
  8. Breakfast places
  9. Vendors
  10. Parties

Please add venues where you have had success.

Hope this gives you ideas on how to surround yourself with beautiful women!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You should add streets to that list, not all HBs only travel by car.
 

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Also there is also upscale shops. These shops usually tend to employ attractive women especially in upscale clothing stores. Admittedly they are hired guns but still game-able.
 

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Anything to do with animals gets my top vote. Every time I take one of my dogs to a farm store or pet store that allows dogs, I get approached by every woman I see.

I was adopting a dog from a shelter once on a Saturday and was supposed to meet them at a Petsmart. They had trouble reaching the foster home that was keeping the dog, so I ended up standing with them for a couple of hours helping them show adoptable pets. I remember walking out to the parking lot once and passing what looked like a hot sorority girl and her mom. The girl gave me a b!tchy "I hate men because you're all pigs" look as I passed her in the parking lot. A few minutes later she passed by the area in the store where I was standing with the shelter people and holding a puppy on a leash. That same girl did a total 180. She was all smiles and as friendly as could be. So was her mom. I felt like I could have scored a mother-daughter from them.

About ten years ago, a Maxim article tested three props to hit on girls: a baby, a Ferrari, and a puppy. They interviewed the girls afterward. "Where's mommy?" is what they thought about baby guy. "If you have this car, why don't you already have a gf?" was the objection Ferrari guy got. And puppy guy cleaned up. It was by far the superior prop.
 
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Interesting. I've never really given it much though as to where I meet women or what kinds of women I meet and eventually go out with. Starting with the most recent working back these are the last 10 women I've gone out with and were I met them. This is over the last 6 months, I met more women, pretty much the same type, but these are the ones I've gone out with. My success rate is about 50%... of the ones I go out with I end up sleeping with most. On this list the only two I didn't was the reporter (number 2) and The Hispanic chamber President (number 10) because I found out she was married to a cop on our first date. Number 2 is still working though her last break-up, so i've pulled back when she is ready.

(1) Private Equity Investor/broker (29 yo): Holiday Party. Convention Center

(2) Reporter for the local paper (35 yo): Holiday Party - Chamber of Commerce

(3) Life Coach/ Yoga Instructor (45 but looks like early 30s): (Same as above)

(4) University professor (43 yo): STTR oversight review (work related)

(5) Psychologist/Employment Coach (Early 40s I think): Rail stop (was visiting from out of town - One night hook-up).

(6) Medical ethics lawyer for hosptial system (Just turned 40): she was a presenter at an SBIR conference.

(7) Lawyer (34 yo) Chamber of Commerce networking event.

(8) Not-for-Profit center director (38 yo): Same event above.

(9) Retail store manager (? don't know banged her on our first date and she vanished): In an elevator going to work.

(10) Hispanic Chamber of Commerce President (42): Chamber of Commerce event.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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