"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Top 10 Mistakes Men make when dating

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr. Wolf

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It's top 5, liar!


2. Men Don't Listen to Us When We're Talking.

You gotta listen to woman when she's talking and when she's not talking.. If you know what I mean.. But this does not mean you gotta look into her eyes when she is talking..

Looking into woman's eyes while she's talking (and men's eyes) is submissive.. Glance and don't hold EC too much or stare.. Glance at other objects, such as her breasts, people around, etc.. Then bring EC back and then break it.. Don't act submissive by staring at her while she's talking.. Of course there will exceptions.

There is no amount of EC you can have while you are talking..

Judge Judy... Look at me while I'm talking to you.. It means submit to me.. You don't have to look at people directly into the eyes to listen to them..




4. Men Don't Take Initiative.

You are given a right to take it one step a little too far.. It's ok if she says no.. Never anticipate a no, instead anticipate a yes.. It's sort of like showing off confidence.



5. Men Say They'll Call and Then Don't.

Never say what you going to do..
 

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The first point isn't just for the girl's sake, but for yours as well. If you have things to brag about- skills, accomplishments, really interesting traits or stories, etc- it's much to your benefit to let her find them out on her own than to tell her all about it up front. It makes getting to know you infinitely more interesting and fun and creates a mystique about you, ultimately making you more attractive. That even works the other way around- I know I'm more attracted or interested in a girl if I learn about her like that.
 
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