"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok, question? is TRUMP alpha because of his looks? OR his power, personality, and money? He's had 3 or 4 wives hotter than most of this board will ever be with. AND when they get old, he drops their ass and marries a younger woman. I've NEVER heard of a wife of his leaving him for her personal trainer, like you seem sure will happen to us.
He sure as HE!! isn't hitting the gym to build muscle like everyone on this board seems to suggest is the only way to alpha. It may be the only way a young man can compete.... but I bet Donald has better things to do than 20 plus hours a week in the gym
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Trump's SMV is a 10 my friend. SMV = looks + money + status. But Trump also uses botox, fillers, and hair transplants (although he denies it), though he doesn't need to because he would be a 10 regardless.

I'm with you 100% in forging your financial enterprise foremost, and all other improvements secondary. Unfortunately, for some here, they are not willing to be self-employed like you and I, slaving 70-80 hours a week. So I tailor my advice to the audience.
 

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guru1000 said:
What are your thoughts on the underlined question that the rest of the contrarians have evaded?
I'm not one of these "go get a foreign woman" guys, although I have nothing against it. I would say that if the girl gets acclimated into the US culture, she would probably absorb many of the negative feminist qualities of the women we have here, and become unreliable.

With the OP though, prison/con.net, this is some sort of money making scheme with him or something, if he's the right person I'm thinking of. I think that it is included in his plan that she is going to leave him after 10 years or whatever, but in the meantime he gets paid a certain amount of money from her somehow. I haven't really read it in depth enough to understand it.

guru1000 said:
Trump's SMV is a 10 my friend. SMV = looks + money + status. But Trump also uses botox, fillers, and hair transplants (although he denies it), though he doesn't need to because he would be a 10 regardless.
What do you think Trump would rate if he had to go only by looks?

For males, SMV = looks + money + status. For women, SMV = looks, yes?
I don't believe in 10s because to me a 10 is perfection, and no one is perfect. I guess it would be easier for a male to get a 10 though, if he can just pile enough money up to make up for any imperfections.
 

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Sodbuster, I think I get the picture. You mentioned you are a self-employed dentist. If you are successful at your age, which based on reading several of your posts I believe you are, your net worth is probably in the low-mid 7-figure range. Which, combined with your denistry status, puts your SMV 1 to potentially 2 pts. higher than the populace.

All I'm getting at is if your total SMV is a 7, don't grab a 9 or 10 offshore. Maybe secure an 8 or lower. Again, these are all assumptions, but you know what I'm getting at. Consider my advice brother. I'm not here to disparage anyone for their choices. I just don't want to see you get railroaded down the road.

I don't believe in 10s because to me a 10 is perfection, and no one is perfect. I guess it would be easier for a male to get a 10 though, if he can just pile enough money up to make up for any imperfections.
Well the scale is 1 to 10, right? So somebody must be a 10 for the scale to be valid. Maybe your scale is 1- 9.9 :)
 
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you can't effing read, apparently. I never said I'm counting on it lasting more than a few years. I'm 62. What I advise is that guys here utilize this opportunity to seize, 100k (cash, no tax or ss) over a 3 year period, and then use that money to create serious investment income, by means of VA loans to turn big old houses into weekly room rentals. Your "forever" marriage is your dream, not mine.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LiveFreeX said:
This is illegal in most 1st world countries.
Haha. Hence, the tag prison/con.net.

Prison, I'm familiar with rooming houses. In the few counties in the US where they are legal, it is a sh8tload of work. And I can guarantee you are not netting 250% annually. If you refute, break down the numbers for me.
 
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