“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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took drugs and was clingy!!!

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alright, so i was throwing this party in my college apartment (5 guys, 3 really hot girls) and a cute drug dealer comes up and tries to sell us x. I bought some and took it, and me and hit it off well. now heres the bad part. she originally said she was going to stay at my house, and then later she decided she needed to leave.

We were hitting it off so well, back rubs, massages, etc, that i really wanted her to stay
When i take x i get kind of emotional, so i kind of started almost-pleading her to stay (come on, im on x you hav eto take care of me, you sure you dont want to stay?) and since shes a lot more experienced with this i think she thought i was a bit clingy.

she got her ride home from my friend and said to him that i got a bit touchy feely, which is why she left. she made sure to give me her non-drug dealer number and told me to call it, but she also gave my friend her number, but he did not show any interest and will never be around again.

Do ysll think i have a chance? maybe she just wated time? or did i **** up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think you're still drugged up because this is the tips section.
 

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Blame it on the drugs for making you act that way. Show her next time your around her that your not like that.
 

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You hit it off so well she decided to leave? You probably creeped her out.. you thought you guys hit it off well with back rubs and massages.. but she said you were too touchy feely.. so what does that tell you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't do X! Quit trying to hump drug dealers! Your gonna get shot or something. But yea man assume everything still applies no matter what your on (for the most part).

She probably just wants to make more money off of you though, no offense and not to say their is no chance (you are a DJ afterall...right?) However I would advice against pushing forward much with this one.

Don't let me stop you though bro, do what you do.

P.S. YOU MISSED! This is the tips section!!!
 

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Bro, with all due respect: a drug dealer is not "cute", a drug dealer is a drug dealer.
She is either much smarter than you think she is, or she is an idiot who doesn't know what she's getting herself into. This ain't weed... this is methylenedioxymethamphetamine, closely related to crystal meth. It's serious sh*t.

My guess is, there are much stronger forces that stand behind this "cute chick", and she is just an innocent looking target, whom they use to do the dirty work for them... that is until they decide to get rid of her, and she gets raped, shot, sold, etc... Dumb little girl in other words. Don't even talk to her again.
 

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Well, ecstasy makes you touchy feely. Don't do drugs, don't do drug dealers, and stop being stupid. Move on and change your life.
 

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Yeah ecstacy is fun, but honestly doing hard drugs will get you NOWHERE in life. You're paying money to kill braincells.. if you want to do that.. you can bang your head on the wall for free! Seriously though, I have done my fair share of drugs.. and the only place it has gotten me is in treatment to stop using them..

My sole purpose for 3 years was making money to fund my drug addictions, and that is time I will never get back, nor have nothing to show for.

Drug dealers are pretty shady people too.. it sounds like she lied to you that she was gonna stay at your place so you bought her ecstacy.. and it looks like her marketing ploy worked.

The long term consequences of using completely outweigh the short term buzz or high.. like developing depression (which is very common for people who quit using) or anxiety, etc.. not to mention you will crash from it eventually which is no fun.

Drugs are worthless.. use the money and effort and put it toward something productive that you can actually have something to show for..
 

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DJVladdy said:
Bro, with all due respect: a drug dealer is not "cute", a drug dealer is a drug dealer.
She is either much smarter than you think she is, or she is an idiot who doesn't know what she's getting herself into. This ain't weed... this is methylenedioxymethamphetamine, closely related to crystal meth. It's serious sh*t.

My guess is, there are much stronger forces that stand behind this "cute chick", and she is just an innocent looking target, whom they use to do the dirty work for them... that is until they decide to get rid of her, and she gets raped, shot, sold, etc... Dumb little girl in other words. Don't even talk to her again.
X is nothing close to crystal meth, that's just blatantly false.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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very sentimental and heart-felt story, splinter... but if this kid hasn't learned this by now, and wants to be a junkie, chasing a worthless drug-dealing piece of *****, whose just tryin to use him like a trick... so be it.
 

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DJVladdy said:
Bro, with all due respect: a drug dealer is not "cute", a drug dealer is a drug dealer.
She is either much smarter than you think she is, or she is an idiot who doesn't know what she's getting herself into. This ain't weed... this is methylenedioxymethamphetamine, closely related to crystal meth. It's serious sh*t.

My guess is, there are much stronger forces that stand behind this "cute chick", and she is just an innocent looking target, whom they use to do the dirty work for them... that is until they decide to get rid of her, and she gets raped, shot, sold, etc... Dumb little girl in other words. Don't even talk to her again.
XTC has nothing to do with methylenedioxymethamphetamine (gotta love CTRL-V). But you make a good point.
 

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lol look it up if you want, when I talk about anything - I take responsibility for my words, im Soviet.
 

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Methylenedioxymethamphetamine- That is the correct spelling. And it has everything to do with X... it is X. MDMA
 

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what a ****ing dumbass for taking drugs. drugs are for losers. they have to rely on something to get them high instead of life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DrD77 said:
what a ****ing dumbass for taking drugs. drugs are for losers. they have to rely on something to get them high instead of life.
If you drink at all.. then thats a pretty hypocritical statement. Drugs are a terrible way to go, but alcohol can mess you up just as bad.
 

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splinterkb said:
If you drink at all.. then thats a pretty hypocritical statement. Drugs are a terrible way to go, but alcohol can mess you up just as bad.
The difference is that drinking is legal.
 

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splinterkb said:
If you drink at all.. then thats a pretty hypocritical statement. Drugs are a terrible way to go, but alcohol can mess you up just as bad.
i don't drink at all though. seriously
 

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tick37 said:
The difference is that drinking is legal.
What does it matter if its legal or not? Alcohol can be very dangerous if you're not careful. A lot of drugs are legal.. but they can still kill people. Take sleeping pills for instance.. mix it with alcohol and you probably will goto bed and not wake up.

Just because it's legal doesn't mean its safe.. it still baffles me how most drugs are illegal, and alcohol is legal. Its just as dangerous, and kills a lot of people every year.

Thats good if you don't drink or do any drugs.. I bet your body appreciates it.
 

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BTW why in the heck do you wanna mess with drug dealer ?
Discounts/samples. And of course, the opportunity for some pussy from a cute girl, which is always good. Sometimes it's a fun to play "fvck the dealer".

The girl might be into you, so there's no harm in calling her up and trying to set something up. Just don't act like a custy, and don't trip with her unless you can handle it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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