Hey guys i have taken some advice on here its been almost a month and a half since i visited this site. I stepped away because all the information was almost confusing and frustrating. What have i been doing.. going out having a good time with as many people as possible. I have been trying new hobbies, taking my workouts more serious, hanging out in coffee shops, talking to random girls. What i have found out is you can only read this stuff so much before you need to get away from this site. I have been in the best mind frame ever in the past month. I have began find out what tips, methods and styles work for my personality and look. Last month i had about 20 girls in my cellphone index, Today i have 60 girls and made about 20 new guy friends. I now find that with trying these methods and actually practicing them and living them that any new information i read will supplement me and no longer confuse me as alot of the info started to do !
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Took advice and stepped away
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