Too young?

[reveazure]

Hi,
I asked this yesterday in a longer post but nobody answered, so I'll ask it separately. What's the best way to defuse the objection from a woman that I'm too young?

 

[HandyAndy]

how old are you?

 

[reveazure]

I'm 25. The women who have said this to me are in their 30's.

 

[sidewind3r]

offer them a sip of your fountain of youth

 

[ducaro]

oh thats total krap. if these 30 year old are saying 'you are young' - ignore that - cuz they are just saying that cuz they don't want to look like real desperate women that cannot find men their age...but hearts of hearts they really want to do you like judgement day would never come if only they'd not be see with you! yeah, they want to secretly do you without people knowing. this 'age justification' business is purely sex based. come on man, you're talkin 30 year old women - they are walking/breathing orgasms on legs!

 

[Rhoto]

Hi,
I asked this yesterday in a longer post but nobody answered, so I'll ask it separately. What's the best way to defuse the objection from a woman that I'm too young?

Maybe you're too old to recognize something good. :rockon:

 

[reveazure]

Thanks . . . Rhoto, sidewind3r: have you ever actually said that? Sounds good, though, I might have used those lines if I weren't too flustered to think about anything.

 

[Effington]

I have a few friends that are 31 (I'm 25) and say the same thing, actually.

 

[sidewind3r]

I have never tried to go after a woman in her thirties but i do imagine that som ehumour could lighten up the situation. She might not want you as a steady boyfriend but i'm sure they wouldn't object to sex with a younger man if you played your cards right

 

[Randallpink83]

Hi,
I asked this yesterday in a longer post but nobody answered, so I'll ask it separately. What's the best way to defuse the objection from a woman that I'm too young?

just say "I don't judge it"... as simple as that.



Her: "I'm so much older then you"

You: "i dont judge it" or "ok, fine" ...you know? just the "whatever" attitude. Its a sh!t test, if anything she might be self conscious and want to see where you stand on it.



from my experience though, often an older girl will try and qualify herself that she isn't TOO old. Love when a girl is trying hard like that, i see right through it. You know its on.

 

[Randallpink83]

of course i just re-read that, missed something... they are saying "you are too young"?.

I would stay unreactive... just shrug "yeah i'm younger then you", then lay on the 'no biggie' face expression. And then change the subject...
actually I would read my thread on dealing with sh!t tests haha...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134545




But in this case it might not be a sh!t test but a real statement, in her mind you very easily could be TOO young. Getting blown off... Either way I would plow like it was a sh!t test cause you never know.

 

[Dongfu]

Tell them that focusing on age is really immature. Wah lah

DongKey Kick#@%$

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

I think girls saying your "too young" translates to; "I'm not interested."

 

[Lord Shinra]

I think girls saying your "too young" translates to; "I'm not interested."

Not always. I worked over a 40 year old (I'm 23) and she gave me the "you're too young" line on me.

I blew it off and laughed. Then my expression went serious and I went "No really, lets go get coffee." She kinda blushed and gave me some IOI and we went to get coffee. Which led to some nuzzling, which led to some kissing which led to some :rockon:

But, that was an isolated incident. If they're not into you, nothing you can do will convince them.

 

[MooseGod]

I've got a FB that's 25...when we started hanging out she gave me crap about being way too young for her. So I gave her crap about being old... "You can't keep up with me, you might break a hip." lol

 

[Road Demon]

They want marriage and babies. They percieve you either as a player with options (which is good thing) or someone who is not in point in their life to settle down. These women in their 30s are running out of time on their biological clock. lol.

 

[reveazure]

It's too bad about the biological clock thing, one of the women at the party was recently divorced in her 30's, and she was basically complaining about how she wasn't gonna have babies. Women can really screw themselves over in a way that no guy can, in that respect. There are guys who first get good with women in their 40's, but for a woman, it's too late.

I don't think I ever really viscerally understood that before saturday night, but it also is just one more barrier, one more way that it's hard for men and women to really see eye to eye.

Randall: I read your thread, nice post. I read The Game recently, and there was a scene where a woman said something extremely sexual, and Neil explained that this was a sh!t test, and his response was just "Respect." I liked that.

 

[DonGorgon]

If a woman likes you your age wont matter to her

 

[reveazure]

I didn't think the point was for them to like you . . . just to fvck you . . .