too young to be about long term relationship ?

[KneghtRyder]

a lot of guys in the 20 -28 age group are about the short term relationships, or even ONS.


iam thinking semi-long term or long term is the easiest way for me to benefit from sosuave since I have no experience. i am in-experienced, and (not white ) but a good looking ethic, could use better social skills.

do you think its very unusual for a 25 something to be seeking Long term relationships or should he be about gaining experience and be all about he ONS/aggressiveness/flings at this age ?

if your in your 20s, what are you hoping to achieve from sosuave, ONSes
, short term flings or just long-term.

 

[Rex Man]

I don't even know where to begin.

First off, you're insecure. You're insecure about you're inexperience, you're insecure about your race and your insecure about what others think of you.

You need an LTR like you need another Bangbros download. Work on yourself first bro. No ones gonna care about you if you can't even care about your self.

Rex Man

 

[chance_]

i am 22 and i would love to be in a LTR. so i think it's normal. nothing wrong with that. just hard to find a decent girl for that.

 

[jamescr73]

i am 22 and i would love to be in a LTR. so i think it's normal. nothing wrong with that. just hard to find a decent girl for that.

Your correct, it is hard to find a decent girl to have a LTR with. I dated 18 girls in the 2 years up to my last LTR that lasted 3 years. #19 was the winner. Now, after weve broken up, Ive been out there meeting girls, going on dates, doing what guys should do. Ill probably go through 20 more before i find someone to my standards. But thats what you have to do. Date them all. Get as many numbers as possible. Spin as many plates as you possibly can. Soon enough one will come along that blows all the others away. Dont just try to find the first one that walks up and make it work, just to be in a LTR. Have fun, your still young.

 

[Chemistry]

If you meet the right chick then I guess any age is fine but I don't think you can honestly say you've met the right person until you have had a certain amount of experience with women via short term relationships and casual dating... how do you know a chick is the right person for you unless you are suitably experienced? The chick you think is the right person only occupies that role because you haven't actually met the right person for you yet! I think you're suitably qualified by the time you get to your late 20s or 30...

For most guys the appeal of a LTR is having pvssy close at hand... they will endure BS and sacrifice who they are just for that pvssy because they live in fear that if they give that pvssy up, it may be a while before they get some new pvssy... being a DJ means that you're not a slave to the pvssy because you have the skills and the means to get some different pvssy

 

[Hitman10000]

I would not recommend anything serious or even getting married till you get the following down:

1. Reading the DJ Bible
2. Experienced at least 5 jobs
3. Experienced having sex with at least 3 girls
4. Education at least: Associates Degree from a Community College
5. Paying rent for your own apartment
6. A definite career path
7. Traveled at least 2 foreign countries

To those 18-21 year old guys in a "LTR" or whatever they call it, don't waste too much time and money thinking she is "THE ONE" I've heard that so many times from 27-30 year olds who were assraped by divorce lawyers of 50% life earnings later on, Worse if they got kids in the mix.

I got a buddy of mines, he's 30 years old. He married a 27 year old, she's definetely been around..guaranteed 20-30 guys she's boinked. But him? He makes TWICE the money she does, pays mortgage..yet only banged 1-2 girls in his life time before her. I shook my head in disbelief, he rationalized "I'm not into messing around" and I rationalized "Yet you're okay with a woman whose sucked at least 20-30 k0ks" You see guys, this type of fellow is a guy who is the lonely type and wants companion with sex of course. She's pretty much a bottom of the barrel type, and he considers himself to be top dog..maybe at work and education but socially..nada. Don't be him, be social if you can and don't FEEL GUILTY about pursuing women just for sex. If she TRULY liked you and wanted to be your companion, she'd want to hang around you as much as often!