too soon?

[MacAvoy]

I met this girl a couple months ago but she lives in a different town than me. We tried to get together a few times but each time things didn't work out.

We finally got together on New Year's Eve. She was working as a DJ at the hotel me and my buddies were staying at. We were going to the bar attached to the hotel, just down the hall from where she was working.

After the dance was over, she came over to the bar where I was at. Everything went great time, she even came up to my room for a few hours. I wasn't able to close the deal because my buddy was in the next bed w/ another women and my other buddy nailed a girl in my bed earlier, so she wasn't too impressed. She was definately into me though and would have under better circumstances.

So far, have been doing things right with her, following DJ rules. Earlier today, was chatting w/ her on messenger and she said to me, "if you lived closer, i would have asked you to come over this weekend...."


We live about 5 hours apart. Should I go up there this weekend or is it too soon. The other factor is I am starting up a second business this month and will be pretty busy and not sure if I will be able to get away for at least another month. Should I take advantage of the opportunity now or wait?

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Originally posted by MacAvoy
I met this girl a couple months ago but she lives in a different town than me. We tried to get together a few times but each time things didn't work out.

We finally got together on New Year's Eve. She was working as a DJ at the hotel me and my buddies were staying at. We were going to the bar attached to the hotel, just down the hall from where she was working.

After the dance was over, she came over to the bar where I was at. Everything went great time, she even came up to my room for a few hours. I wasn't able to close the deal because my buddy was in the next bed w/ another women and my other buddy nailed a girl in my bed earlier, so she wasn't too impressed. She was definately into me though and would have under better circumstances.

So far, have been doing things right with her, following DJ rules. Earlier today, was chatting w/ her on messenger and she said to me, "if you lived closer, i would have asked you to come over this weekend...."


We live about 5 hours apart. Should I go up there this weekend or is it too soon. The other factor is I am starting up a second business this month and will be pretty busy and not sure if I will be able to get away for at least another month. Should I take advantage of the opportunity now or wait?

Can she meet you half way? If she can't, NEXT.

It's up to you.... 5 hours is a haul for some love, and it's not promised. I'd call her up, and say, 'Hey, I was thinking of dropping by, you up for some dinner and dancing? I think your fun as shizhell! ..and if the topic goes to 'what will you do if it gets late?' ust say 'I'll get a hotel room, it's not a problem.' she'll either invite you to sleep on the couch, which would show that she is fly... or join you in the hotel... if she doesn't do either, then NEXT!

 

[MacAvoy]

I know her IL is high and I would definately get some action. I am not worried about that. She was saying she wanted me to spend the weekend at her house.

I want to keep her attraction up and don't want to come on too strong so thats why I wanted to know if it was too soon?

 

[StimulI]

Bump

I'm with InLawsHateMe...

If she really wants to see you she'll meet you half way.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Too soon? No way... wear a condom? Yes.

I'd try to get her to meet you half way at a small town that you both can explore....or...if you want to make the trip and stay at her place, it'll make a nice weekend getaway. Ya only live once. It's better to give it a shot, then regret later bud.

 

[Viejo]

Let go man. No ass is worth a 5 hour drive (to a true DJ). But on the off chance you live in a dog pound (referering to the local women), you have a wooden leg, you'r a recluse,...No I take that back.... No ass is worth a 5 hour drive.

Find a woman that will close deals in an A.R.U.B. (Already Used Bed) and move on.

 

[MacAvoy]

I forgot to mention, I live in a small town and I have already bedded all the women here. The closest city is 2 hours away and that is generally where go to meet new women.

Secondly I am not interested in just any piece of ass, if so I could have taken part in the gang bang earlier w/ my buddies.

Thirdly, not really interested in meeting half way as then I would have to pay for a hotel room.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Originally posted by MacAvoy
I forgot to mention, I live in a small town and I have already bedded all the women here. The closest city is 2 hours away and that is generally where go to meet new women.

Secondly I am not interested in just any piece of ass, if so I could have taken part in the gang bang earlier w/ my buddies.

Thirdly, not really interested in meeting half way as then I would have to pay for a hotel room.

Then you know what to do bro. ....go with your gut pimpin. trust your gut.... F everyone, and everything else.

 

[Viejo]

Originally posted by MacAvoy
I forgot to mention, I live in a small town and I have already bedded all the women here. The closest city is 2 hours away and that is generally where go to meet new women.

Secondly I am not interested in just any piece of ass, if so I could have taken part in the gang bang earlier w/ my buddies.

Thirdly, not really interested in meeting half way as then I would have to pay for a hotel room.

If all you say is true, It's time to leave the area or be destined to travel 2+ hours for a 'maybe she's the one,..then again maybe not'. I recomend San Diego,...real nice. From my experience I can tell you people are cool and friendly there. [/QUOTE]