"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Too soft to get the girls and what you want in life?

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chancer

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How do I become "hard", if that's the word i'm looking for... I work with a kid, and a lot of times his parents are home, so I run into and talk to them briefly. Today was interesting because the mom told me that I'm soft, but she also knows that I'm good for working with her kid. And in recent times, I noticed that I'll be soft, but the moment I have to get things done and put my balls on the line, I can and will. Anyway, as we all know first impressions are everything, how do I shake the whole soft side of me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You have any ideea what forum this is ? Hit the gym ... whatever
 
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Uh, a gym is not going to make you hard. Man up, she's telling you to grow a backbone and don't be afraid of making someone mad.
 
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Nah, I think i kept it all to brief. The thing is I get the job done. I work with many kids with behavior issues and they listen and do what i say. If they play nice, i play nice. But by the time they're infront of their parents, there are no behavior issues. So the parents only see the nice, professional me. Anyway, this whole conversation was about someone else and I was mentioned in comparison.

And btw, I do have a backbone and do hit the gym. next topic.
 
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