Too smart?

[Fvrthebrave]

So a couple months ago I began talking to a girl my friend had introduced me to. We continued talking for a while and eventually started dating. The thing that made me so interested in this girl is the fact that she is so smart, but not school smart. She just knows all the games guys play and it really shot my interest level up. She's one of those girls who "doesn't give you what you want" which I have never dealt with.

A couple weeks ago she started telling me that she felt like I was more into the relationship than she was... This really confused/pissed me off. I straight up told her to call me when she knows what she wants but that just led her to saying," I want to be with you." later the next day she apologized and said she felt stupid because of how things panned out. Has anyone dealt with this before?

We are still together and she definitely has more interest in me after that day, but she does one thing that is so simple yet so confusing at the same time. This girl constantly tells me that she hates me... But she isn't serious. She says it means something but I will have to catch on on my own. She usually does it when we are laying down. I know that it's childish, but it really intrigues me for some reason. Any ideas?

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Question is: does it even matter? I think not. If you feel like you're losing control, just invest less in the relationship or something. Not my strong side.

 

[Fvrthebrave]

You could be right. I will invest less. One thing I'm thinking is that maybe she is scared due to the fact that her little games don't work as well as she would like on me.