"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Too small to Boot Camp?

TheDarkSaint

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Hey guys

I'm wanting to join up and start my bootcamp. However, I've got a real problem.

I teach music in a town of around 2,000 people. That's it. 2,000 people. Half of those are men. So..1,000 girls. I look at age statistics. 50% of the towns women are over 50. 70% are over 40. 20% are under 18 (my students).

Are you starting to see the problem?

The nearest population center, Amarillo, is 2 1/2 hours away.

Anyone have any ideas?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zonder

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sure

I love this post. There is a grand total of 100 chicks you could hit on. But let me continue with the statistical projection. 66% of Americans are obese. That leaves you with 40 chicks.

60% of chicks are thin but still not hot enough for a DJ. That leaves you with 16 chicks. 10 Of them will be wackos, wyldfires, drama queens, flaky, etc.

Soooooooo...

You've only got 6 chicks in your area you can date!

On the other hand, such small towns have very few true DJ's. You already have high status (teacher) so you're ahead of the game. Your competition will be low to non-existent.

Here's what I suggest that you do. BTW a variation of this is what turned me from a nerd into what I am now. I was even thinking of making a "Tips" post about it.

Make it a "field trip" and go to Amarillo to sarge for a few weekends. This will instantly remove your inhibitions. You will have nothing to lose and everything to win. If you're not the ONS type you could still use it to pick up chicks, then call them up the following week, take them out if they agree etc. 2.5 hours is nothing. I commute to work for 2 hours (roundtrip) every day. Go there Saturday morning, pick up chicks all day, go to a hotel (preferably with one of them), sarge chicks all of Sunday, and go back to your place.

I know it may sound too complicated, but just do it. I am the living proof this works like magic. Your transformation from a possibly insecure and inexperienced guy to a confident Alpha will be almost instant.

Besides, after a few weeks of that, you'll have more experience with women that anyone else in your town. Then you'll be able to get any of the 6 chicks you are actually interested in.
 

NorPacWolf

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Whoa. I was feeling sorry for myself until I read this post. I guess I better stop complaining. I don't think it's a bad idea to take a trip to a bigger city and experiment with approaches, as Z recommended. What have you got to lose? You'll be mackin' in no time, son!

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