"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Too Scared

PeterCrouch

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To ask gals who are my freinds, to come round

basically for some reason when im chatting to gals most of the gals i know i chat too online or face to face, and there all freinds, but even if i want to go further for some reason im too scared to ask them to come round or do something

basically gal i like who has a bf unfortunatly, i want to ask her round my house on saturday coz i have a free house and i think it would be fun

no harm is asking right? but im just too scared to ask
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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arutha

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Bring it up in coversation, say you are going to be home alone all day and will be bored because you can't think of anything to do and several of your friends are busy or something like that. If she wants to be their she will probably offer.

Or just bite the bullet and straight out ask, its not like you're saying come **** me.
 

LuisGarcia10

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Here's a tip, don't go for girls with boyfreinds.

It really isn't worth it.

But essentially, I have the same problem as you.

I can attract girls to me, but seem to be incapable of pushing it one step further and actually pulling them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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