"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Too Predictable!!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Depends how they are saying it.

Are you too predictable in a "guy' sort of way. Meaning they roll their eyes and huff at the 'guy' ways you react to things?? If so, you're probably doing fine.

Or are you boring? If so, do something different for a date. Surprise them. Try a new technique on the mattress, shock her with something she may not know from your past. If you're setting up a predictable pattern to her like that, it shows what she is after and shows what you have been about lately.
 
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