Too Picky???

[epic_barrels]

Hello everyone.

I am back..Since my last post, I have met a really good girl and have been dating her for the last 3-4 months..I have been exclusive with her since the summer.

On paper, she is great. She is beautiful, smart, great career, great familiy, great values, takes care of herself, into many of the same things I am into..etc. A lot of my friends tell me not to "f this one up".

I definitely like her. She has fallen hard for me..She is absolutely crazy about me and will go out of her way to treat me awesome in everyway.

The problem is there are many times where I "just don't feel it". I am turning 32 soon try to fight the urge to think that I should settle down..etc. I guess I need to "be in love" with a girl to really commit and I am not sure if I feel that with this girl..At the same time, I am beginning not to believe in the whole "being in love" thing and starting to realize that no girl is perfect and I should just find one I get along with on many levels.

Has anyone ever been in this situation? I have very high standards..sometimes I feel like I am way too picky..People think I am crazy if I let this girl go. Half the time, I really feel it..there are other times where I just want to be single again.

I know there is no perfect girl out there..I have been with tons of girls and have only truly loved a girl once im my life, about 7 years ago. I guess I am just trying to figure out what the hell I am going to do with this girl.

Any advice would be great..
Thanks

 

[thedude4242]

I am like that also. they got to

have nice teeth/white smile
nice shaped-tits
fresh shaved vagina and ass
body has to go together good with symmetry
dress in a nice style
great hygiene

now I dont want a hot model or porn star. there are a lot of these women. like the 8's. they are great. look nice naked.

 

[wasted-nick]

Sounds like a decent catch... There's no damned reason you need to be in love with her yet. You've only been together for a few months or so. Take your time... They usually 180 and get all crazy on you at about month 8, so you have that to look forward to.

 

[thedude4242]

month 8, funny. I always talked about month 8 but just thought it was me. didnt know anyone else had any thoughts on month 8. I was with a girl for 8 months.