Too Over the Top??

[Dash Riprock]

DJ thoughts on this...

I conduct motivational seminars and had a hot Latino woman attend two in a row (where she worked) a few months back. She emailed me after with a question which I replied to and also invited her to lunch with me.

She emailed back (a long 3 paragraph email) saying how her aunt was sick, she was traveling to Chicago, yadda, yadda, "how about after that?", she asked (a month down the road). I emailed her back and said she seemed pretty busy, contact me when you free up a bit. End of story, never spoke to or saw her again. Until...

She emails me out of the blue, 3 months later (a few weeks ago), and asks me to dinner on a Wed nite. I carried out the date in pure DJ form, keeping it focused on her, using humor, charm, and a bit of chiding humor. I did not kiss her or commit to anything after the date. Her interest level was high based on her non-verbal cues throughout the night.

This Latino chick is a 9.9/10 and has a modeling portfolio. I mean she is H-O-T.

She lives about an hour away, so I've been in slow mode, contacting her every 5-9 days, to check in (quick VM or 5 minute conversation) but not to ask her out. I don't want to give her a weekend date--yet--but want to get her to go hiking with me on a Sunday afternoon.

Here's an idea: If you want to stand out from the crowd--differentiate yourself. This girl has the pick of the litter and though I feel her interest level is perhaps 75-80%, I want to put this game out of reach. This girl probably gets hit on A LOT and has guys trying to get in her pants constantly. Most I'm sure are clueless...

I'm thinking about FedEx'ing her a Nalgene water bottle where she works with an invite for hiking and directions to my house--nothing else. It will be more of a "command" than a "would you like to..." Written with a bit of ****y humor. No phone call, no email, zip! Every other dork she dates is most-likely going the safe, traditional route. My aim is to shock and awe.

DJ Thoughts...

 

[speedo_meme]

go for it, seems like a good idea, and you certainly will get as good or better a response than if you did the traditional route.

 

[SAYNO]

Sounded Good Until.....

You said:

I'm thinking about FedEx'ing her a Nalgene water bottle...



And besides, if her intrest level was 80% zone you'd probably already be banging her.

Her interest level is probably hoovering around 50-60 right now.

If you send her that water bottle it'll drop lower. Never spend a dime on a women esp HB 9-10's



Sayno'

 

[Dash Riprock]

We've had one date that went well that she asked me out on.

I waited 8 days to call her after the date, got her VM, and left a "calling to say hey-type" message. She emailed back the next day.

Waited another 9 days and called to wish her well on her American Idol tryout--5 minutes, nothing else. Emailed a couple days later asking her how it went and to see if she needed me to kick Simon's ass for not picking her. She emailed back immediately.

Saw her this Wed at her office because I was speaking there again. She looked like a 10/10 HB (because I was showing up perhaps???). She came in the room and I chatted with her briefly because other people were present. Lots of smiling and eye contact on her part. Had the receptionist look her up before I left, she wasn't around, so I split.

The next step is my conundrum. Wisdom says to wait until next Thurs (8 days) call her and invite (tell her) her were going hiking OR the Nalgene Bottle Play which IS very different.

She's worth a solid game plan.

 

[Evangenlion]

she's hooked him hook, line and sinker.
he must have thought up 1000 ways to get her into bed.
made a million plans etc
and hey she can't even get into that singing contest thing.

dude

can u stop acting up.
your game is slipping, i'm seeing u in the friends zone
it been like how many months and u can't even score with her?
and believe me it never takes that long.

the perfect game plan is not to have a game plan, stop thinking to much, your giving yourself a headache.

next time u see her, take her home, kiss her , lay on the bed and bang her till she cums.

 

[Ricky]

Why do you guys have to tear him down?

It sounds like he's doing everything well to keep the interest up.

I like the bottle idea. Why because it's unique
it's original and well thought out.

I think everything can be looked at in term of the context it was done.

Doing that would fail if you were needy in all other interactions, but he wasn't he is playing it great. So why would it fail. It isn't like he's sending a bouquet of flowers to her.

 

[joekerr31]

in the past i would have said not to do it. dont let her think you have high interest level in her.

but you know something, i say do it.

and you know why?

if you WANT to do it, if you are doing it because you think its neat and it makes YOU happy to do it, then do so be it.

worse thing that happens is she thinks your an AFC and starts to screw with you. The moment she does this NEXT her and move on to the next.

She will later kick herself for letting a romantic nice guy (you can be nice without being an AFC) get away.

guys don't get dumped for treating women too nicely, they get dumped when they let a woman walk all over them (because the woman then knows that the only reason you were treating her nicely was to gain her favor).

If you treat a woman nicely and dump her ass when she acts like a b*tch, trust me, she will regret for years letting you get away. She'll judge every other guy she dates by you and always wonder why she let the "good guy" get away.

anyway, i know peopel wil disagree with the points made above, but ultimately i guess my point is this:

Its your life so do what you want! And you know, this chic might see your actions as AFC, but the chic that you settle down with one day will fall head over heals for you when you do something like this.

life is short man. if you're the romatic type that likes to do "special" things for people, then go to it.

J

 

[gixxer]

The water bottle is a great idea. Really cute and original and romantic - BUT IT'S FRIGGIN AFC AS $HIT! Too much work to put into a girl you haven't fukked yet.

Tell her you're going hiking Sunday and she can come if she wants. Have her meet you at your place so you can get her back there after. Have some stuff to make for dinner when you get back. You're cooking for yourself and she can stay if she wants. After dinner take the b!tch upstairs and nail her :woo:

Save the water bottle thing for date 10. Or at least until after you fukk her........

gixx

 

[al77]

Originally posted by gixxer
The water bottle is a great idea. Really cute and original and romantic - BUT IT'S FRIGGIN AFC AS $HIT! Too much work to put into a girl you haven't fukked yet.
gixx

Right.
Imagine how she feels when she got the bottle. "Ah.. cute! But we are not in a relationship yet and this guys is.. desperate already". It does not matter for her that it is just a bottle. If it arrivies via FedEx, it must be a gift she thinks. "Is he trying to buy me or what"? Thats stupid, but it is most likely how hot women think.