Man everytime I find a girl or in this case a woman, I take interest in her... I'm 19 and she is 42 but a very fine 42 year old at that(trust me), she should have men hitting on her everyday type lady... I know how to avoid the nice guy thing but is dating her even called for? I'm willing but I dont want to screw things up if ALL she wants his young dic*. She mentioned dating(in general with a young guy) but I know woman dont know what that want. Do women even think with that mindframe( I just want his dic*)? If I do date/game her and say move in with her for a while and drive her car then my confidence should be through the roof. I will get into details when I can get some opinions, if needed. Women have to be interested to even want my dic*, right? So I can play it however I want, right? Thanks Playas
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Too old?
- Thread starter lghost
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
maybe I didn't seem serious? I serious as an heart-attack. I dont care if your answers aren't right.. I just need opinions... Yes, my over-thinking is killing me but... If she just wants to ****, then I will screw that up by showing more interest in her... If it isnt just about sex then I dont want to NOT show interest in her and screw up chances of ****ing her and keeping her around for other benifits.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
It's possible all she wants is sex[she may have watched too muchof"the cougar"]. She may think she wants a relationship,but you can get out of that easy enough. I can't see what the problem is unless you work for her. You are thinking too much. She will let you know what she wants sooner or later. If it's just sex, you'll be given the hint soon enough
ok... Now the details... She works for the same company... I'm in the warehouse, she is in the office... I only find time to talk to her after I get off cause she works an extra 30 mins... I don't want her number because I like to build suspense for attraction and the best sex ever... I have never got with a chick JUST for sex and I don't really want to... BELIEVE ME THOUGH, I WILL... But because I don't think like that, then I wouldn't even recognize her cues that say "sex only, boy"... So, do I continue to flirt and show interest in her(ask her about herself) until I know for sure what she is looking for? I guess what I'm asking is, what kind of cues am I looking for? What kind of things do I ask to receive an indirect answer? She DID ask me what I thought about talking to a grown woman and also mentioned that age wasn't nothing but a number...I want to ask her what she thinks about talking to a young cat like me and maybe using the word relationship(?) but I don't want to ruin things, you know?
I live with my parents but that plays no factor in pulling her... Maybe bringing her over but I don't plan on that anyway... Lol though, she has 2 boys, one is older than me...
I live with my parents but that plays no factor in pulling her... Maybe bringing her over but I don't plan on that anyway... Lol though, she has 2 boys, one is older than me...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If you are looking for a relationship, game her until she falls 'in love' with you. However, I would just be on the lookout for simple things like her buying you something, surprising you, making the effort to see how YOU are doing, being caring etc. It's things like that that show relationship qualities. Now, her kid being older then you will be awkward as hell should this become public. The kid will definitely have issues with it unless he and his mother don't talk, just something to keep an eye out for.
Either way go for it if it is what you truly want to do.
Either way go for it if it is what you truly want to do.