"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Too old for braces?

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Is there an age when you are too old for braces?

Have you seen any guys in their mid-20's with braces? My dentist told me that if I had braces for 12 months (roughly $3000) it would fix my slightly crooked teeth.

Do you think it is worth it? Are straight teeth really that important to chicks?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ER!C L!VE

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My father finally got braces when he was 55. Yes, straight teeth will help you with women, male friends and help you in the business world as well. Additionally, make sure your teeth are white!

On a side note, my mom got a Ph. D when she was 50. I really wish people would stop with the self limiting thinking. I hear it from women more than men and I jump all over them when they try to bring me into their world of 'Boo Hoo "WE'RE" getting soooo old". I tell them to STFU - they're getting old. I'm not.
 

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You are NEVER too old for braces, as long as your gums are relatively healthy. They have a lot of new stuff out today, that makes your braces less conspicous.

I had braces for over 5 LONG YEARS from 1989-1994 and they were metal. Although my teeth hurt for days from tuneups from the Orthodontist, frequent cuts and bruises to my lips (from sports) I would do it over with a snap of a finger. I had a HUGE overbite and gaps in my teeth. I GET ON MY KNEES EVERYDAY AND THANK GOD FOR ORTHDONTICS. If not, my teeth would still be ****ed up and my self-esteem would be lower.

Yes, it is WORTH IT, every second and every penny. Your teeth (straightness and bite) and how your jaws come togethers play a HUGE role in facial aesthetics.

BTW, chicks care about straight teeth. There is no excuse for messed up teeth these days.
 

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At 34 years old Invisalign was one of the best things I've ever done. I highly recommend it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was asking myself this question when I got them in my early 20s. It was the best $1200 bucks I ever spent. I had a gap between my front teeth and one of them was somewhat rotated inward. Only thing is you have to wear your retainer practically forever. Even now, like 10 years later, if I stop wearing it for a longer period of time, I can see my teeth reverting back to their former placing.
 

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speakeasy said:
I was asking myself this question when I got them in my early 20s. It was the best $1200 bucks I ever spent. I had a gap between my front teeth and one of them was somewhat rotated inward. Only thing is you have to wear your retainer practically forever. Even now, like 10 years later, if I stop wearing it for a longer period of time, I can see my teeth reverting back to their former placing.
That is where my orthdontist screwed up. After wearing braces for 5 years, he only had me wear my retainer for 6 months. Since then, my bite has moved forward slightly causing my chin to be recessed.
 

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I don't wear my retainer in the daytime ever. Maybe several times a week I'll put it on when I'm sleep.
 
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