"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

too much too soon?

Joined
Jun 14, 2005
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
i met thing girl saturday, we hit it right off....i saw her again on sunday there was some kissing involved....i am thinking of seeing her again thursday but after that not again for a week is that ok? or am i seeing too much of her
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Joined
Nov 6, 2003
Messages
4,280
Reaction score
8
Location
Wisconsin. USA
Hey kid, I like your blunt screen name - you didn't read the dj bible - did you? Me neither but I'm 43 years old!! See her no more than twice in a week and keep your phone calls to a minimun and less than 10 minutes and no e-mails or txt messaging crap!!
 

Pimp-sicle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2003
Messages
2,457
Reaction score
101
Location
Pimpsylvania
Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Hey kid, I like your blunt screen name - you didn't read the dj bible - did you? Me neither but I'm 43 years old!! See her no more than twice in a week and keep your phone calls to a minimun and less than 10 minutes and no e-mails or txt messaging crap!!
WHAT!!! PRL you didn't read the "DJ BIBLE!!!!" You just lost all your creditability with me....LOL :D


PIMP
 
Joined
Nov 6, 2003
Messages
4,280
Reaction score
8
Location
Wisconsin. USA
I never read one article - only the comments from you guys!

My first post was"Say 'No' to hos" and I kinda went from there!:D

When I first registered it said to read the bible so I did - both the old and new testament - I didn't know about the "DJ" bible!:D


Now you know why I got the righteous angle in all of my posts -- haha, hehe, hoho, ohno, ohoh, say 'no' to every homo!!:D
 

Legend

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 23, 2003
Messages
874
Reaction score
2
Age
43
Location
NY/CT
It doesnt matter if he read it or not.....he has life experience which is all that really matters.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Top