too much of an *******? what to do when a girl insults u

[gimmeyofonenumba]

This chick that works in another dpt. from me. I've known her for a while and used to like me. She was a clear cut AW. The more i dodged and ignored her the more she wanted me.But she had a bf, and it dried up but I can see she still likes me. Today however she gives me some sh1t, and i took offense to it. She told me how my clothes look messed up, and not in a playfull way. She was serious, and it was true cause i was in a rush this morning and had to grab a wrinkled shirt. She was all smiles before I dunno why she is doing this. She walks off and when she returns we were kinda just talking until i started playfully teasing her school, and then she said at least she knows how to do her laundry. I told her to leave the room, kinda playfully but serious. And she left, but right before 5pm she stopped by and told me how she got a sale and I said "wow you came all the way down here to tell me that" and she said yes I told her congratulations. Then she said "oh btw, i was coming down here to leave"(when i know she wasnt) but in a real *****y voice . I said later and smiled while walking away from her.

Whadya guys think, this b1tch really got on my nerves. But I still kinda like her. We always playfully tease each other but for some reason today was different. The whole future between us if any will be determined next time i see her.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

bump

 

[Vypros]

What's your question?

She obviously likes you and you obviously like her.

Just roll with things and wait for an opportunity and seize it.

Ever watch the movies where a man and a woman fight so much and argue and then out of nowhere they just bust loose and f*ck?

I sort of see that in your future, although I wouldn't advocate doing something like that at work. lol

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

ya i think of that sometimes. I forgot to ask my question in the original post, which is should i apologize or acknowledge what happened? waht should i do next time i see her?

 

[PectoralisMajor]

A little worrying your asking what to do when its simple. luckily it doesnt sound like you;ve blown it with this chick.

1) dont apologize - unless you;ve been overly off hand in any way
2) bust her on her clothing next time you see something to comment on. tease her about it etc...


and if you want to take things one step further, at lunch say ' i'm really thirsty & hungry today - do you fancy popping out with me to get some goodies blah blah'