too much of a jerk

[WingS]

i was C + F and got told i was over confident over ****y, aragant and an a$$hole........roughly 3 or 4 times....so i decided....try and be a bit softer and tell a girl how u feel about her...and it seems to be working better....is there an equilibrium you have to strike between a jerk and a nice guy in order to get the girl?

 

[seloifter]

you're not using C+F correctly..... but very few people do so don't worry about it....
plus you're using it on high school girls, and they're the most confusing bunch of bitshes out there..... the whole ballgame is different with HS girls....

the equilibrium is your own personal taste.... it comes with years of personal field-testing, observing, adjusting, etc. Like any form of personality.

and telling a girl how you feel about her doesn't really work. You think it works because her apparent reaction is positive, but in the end, you're not getting any more pvssy (feel free to prove me wrong), so it doesn't do much.

 

[WingS]

Originally posted by seloifter
you're not using C+F correctly..... but very few people do so don't worry about it....
plus you're using it on high school girls, and they're the most confusing bunch of bitshes out there..... the whole ballgame is different with HS girls....

the equilibrium is your own personal taste.... it comes with years of personal field-testing, observing, adjusting, etc. Like any form of personality.

and telling a girl how you feel about her doesn't really work. You think it works because her apparent reaction is positive, but in the end, you're not getting any more pvssy (feel free to prove me wrong), so it doesn't do much.

i hear what ur saying...maybe high school girls arent mature enough to deal with it... ive always naturally put myself before anyone else and i do strive to be the best.... when i adopted C + F i practically made out i was king of the world but i never literally sed it like that...just acted as if i was...which i am

 

[TheSplat]

Who cares...they're attracted to jerks.

 

[Bishop DonJuan Jones]

I tryed that today.....it was a hit and miss....it's a shame that it was working on the two girls that already had guys....but the one i was aiming for...i think i just over did it.

And both of the taken girls responded to C+F at different degrees.

So i am guessing you have to tailor your C+F very differently depending on the girl.

 

[Canadianpimpology]

I personally think it's a bad idea to rely on C+F as your main "weapon." Confidence is much more important. Without genuine confidence, C+F is hard to pull off. I also think it isn't a good idea to start a conversation with C+F. Get to know her name, then pull a 180 on her...it'll shock the hell out of her and make you more interesting, mysterious, and a challenge. Finally, don't overdo C+F, although when used a lot, it works wonders.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by WingS
i was C + F and got told i was over confident over ****y, aragant and an a$$hole........roughly 3 or 4 times....so i decided....try and be a bit softer and tell a girl how u feel about her...and it seems to be working better....is there an equilibrium you have to strike between a jerk and a nice guy in order to get the girl?

hello have you heard of a guy named Pook?

its the 2nd post in the bible i believe.

look it up. while you are at it read the whole damn thing.

then you can answer your own questions.

 

[MoAF]

C+F is not a tecknique, its a theme. If your end of the conversation is C+F that means you deliver every line you say like you've said it a million times before, and you still love it. Whenever she opens herself up lay on a 'yeah, I know I'm sexy' type of line. Leme show ya a C+F convo/interaction:

Anthony GRRR - Hey K
K - Oh hey, wow, Anthony, your all grown up!
Anthony G - Well thats one of us... but what have you been up to?
K - Its SUMMER! Relaxing, tanning, working unfortunatly, and lots of hot passionate sex
AG - So you've been sleeping, baking, flipping burkers and making love... to yourself? Sounds exciting!
K - Oh if you only knew... and whats been keeping you busy?
AG - Well I got a new hobby
K - Anal Sex?
AG - Close, dealing arms, actually
K - IC, and how's that going for ya?
AG - Not as good as that gig @ Chip/Dale's [male strip club in buf], but it pays the bills
K - Wheres REG?

<blabla, fast forward to the car on the way to the theatre>

K - I gotta tell ya, Anthony, you look good
AG - Awww K, thats what all my friend's sister's say!
K - But do they all drive you to the movies?
AG - Well I usually bill them by the half hr for my time...
K - You remind me of me... only I bill by the hr and round up <devilish grin, I got wood>

<I'm tired of typing>

Thats C+F... going with the flow and having fun with the girl your talking too, letting her know you know you're sexy. Its not one line, its just rolling with the punches, making her roll her tongue in her cheek trying to find a cleaver comeback, but she cant cuz shes too busy smiling.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by WingS
i was C + F and got told i was over confident over ****y, aragant and an a$$hole........roughly 3 or 4 times....so i decided....try and be a bit softer and tell a girl how u feel about her...and it seems to be working better....

As long as you aren't spilling your feelings everywhere like some "nice guy" AFC, do what works. But you were doing C+F wrong. It's supposed to make girls LAUGH.

is there an equilibrium you have to strike between a jerk and a nice guy in order to get the girl?

Duh.

 

[WingS]

Re: Re: too much of a jerk

Originally posted by drixsa
hello have you heard of a guy named Pook?

its the 2nd post in the bible i believe.

look it up. while you are at it read the whole damn thing.

then you can answer your own questions.

drop the attitude, ive read it

and apparently im "big headed"....C + F isnt working for me

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Originally posted by WingS
is there an equilibrium you have to strike between a jerk and a nice guy in order to get the girl?

No, you can get her either way. Your looking for compliments, when what you'll be getting is girls.

A DJ is an equilibrium between the jerk and nice guy. He gets the compliment and gets the girl.

We've all gotta start somewhere, though.

 

[WingS]

Originally posted by MoAF
C+F is not a tecknique, its a theme. If your end of the conversation is C+F that means you deliver every line you say like you've said it a million times before, and you still love it. Whenever she opens herself up lay on a 'yeah, I know I'm sexy' type of line. Leme show ya a C+F convo/interaction:

Anthony GRRR - Hey K
K - Oh hey, wow, Anthony, your all grown up!
Anthony G - Well thats one of us... but what have you been up to?
K - Its SUMMER! Relaxing, tanning, working unfortunatly, and lots of hot passionate sex
AG - So you've been sleeping, baking, flipping burkers and making love... to yourself? Sounds exciting!
K - Oh if you only knew... and whats been keeping you busy?
AG - Well I got a new hobby
K - Anal Sex?
AG - Close, dealing arms, actually
K - IC, and how's that going for ya?
AG - Not as good as that gig @ Chip/Dale's [male strip club in buf], but it pays the bills
K - Wheres REG?

<blabla, fast forward to the car on the way to the theatre>

K - I gotta tell ya, Anthony, you look good
AG - Awww K, thats what all my friend's sister's say!
K - But do they all drive you to the movies?
AG - Well I usually bill them by the half hr for my time...
K - You remind me of me... only I bill by the hr and round up <devilish grin, I got wood>

<I'm tired of typing>

Thats C+F... going with the flow and having fun with the girl your talking too, letting her know you know you're sexy. Its not one line, its just rolling with the punches, making her roll her tongue in her cheek trying to find a cleaver comeback, but she cant cuz shes too busy smiling.

yeh but you had good rapport with "K" the girls i know arent that quick witted and the ones that are, are frigid